I need some really good advice please!!!

I am having trouble moving on. I have been dating my bf for about 9 months now and I have been friends with this guy named Michael for about a year. Well just a few months ago Michael and I finally told each other how we felt about each other...he told me he loved me and wanted to be with me and i told him the same things and i meant it but, i also loved my bf. Well i was going to break up with my bf for Michael when he all of a sudden decided to go kiss another girl and forget all about me. Me and my bf stayed together and we still are together...its just so hard because Michael and I still talked and stuff and he would tell me that he still had feelings for me but he just couldn't do anything about it. So i got mad and yelled at him! I just couldn't take it anymore! He has been doing this for months and I just snapped...We haven't talked in a few days and I can't make myself let go! I feel like I am the only one who is stuck with all this pain and misery!! I love my bf to death and i sound like a real bitch but I just need some advice or some kind words....I am so lost and I am trying really hard to keep a grip on everything....please just help

Im not sure a person is really capable of really loving 2 people...i think that maybe your confusing some of your feelings somewhere for one of these guys..im not sure what to say..kinda losing it myself and my thoughts that are useful are going with it..but i think that unless your going to fight hard for this other guy and lave your bf then go try...but if you cant fight for him or dont want to, then maybe its best you dont have too much contact with him...i know that it kinda kills me everytime i talk so someone and it seems that it could be the same for you...

Hey hunni. i dunno, really. and im sorry. but i can say (cuz i saw somebody mentioned it...) that you CAN love 2 people. and u can love both of them equally. so i will pray for u...i dunno what else to say!! xoxoxox

Thanks for all the advice...i still don't know what to do...and it is possible to love 2 people....believe me im doing it right now...
but i really have alot to think about and all the advice has helped =)

The only reason you stayed with your bf was because Michael kissed another girl and forgot about you. Had that not happened, you were going to break up with him. To me it seems you are unsure because Michael has proven himself not to be a sure thing, your bf is your safety, that's not love. Did you tell your bf you were going to break up with him, but didn't because the other guy you think you love ended up kissing another girl? Maybe then he could help you figure out what the right thing to do is, afterall it is his life and relationship too.

Yeah i did tell my bf...i told him everything when it happened...well maybe a week after it happened

Then he should be the one you are working it out with.

I'm trying...but it just seems that every time i think i have it all figured out something happens to make second guess my self