Im guilty! what should i do?

Im leaving nextweek i will go to other country and i had a bf but i dont love him actually.. i just dont like that he keeps bothering me so i let him enter in my life and be my bf though i dont love him at all... i feel guilty coz everytime he says.. i love u and i cant answer him back... and i never tell him that im leaving nextweek.

do u think guys its unfair to him,, but its his fault coz how many times i told him that i cant love him as what he do. i cant give the love that what he expected from me, but still he insist that no matter what im only the girl of his life! im getting hurt and guilty coz i know i was hurting him and i dont like someone getting hurt coz of me.

Talk to him and confess everythin..and breakup wit him in a nice way..i mean use nice words....anyways ur leavin so, dat shouldnt be a problem like u said he kept following you....i dunno i mean i would never enter into such situation =D..sorry girl....but i think this is unfair...unfair for both of you..

Hahahaa relax TPAM...people do mistakes u know for them to realize what they have caused...but i do agree bout the poor guy's situation....aww...dat would really hhurts..but its never too late to correct what you have done....and remember he shouldnt get blamed..it was ur fault...

Hmm really do i have to tell him that im leaving? well thanks guy i guess i have to...

i just dont know how to start and how to tell him.. what do u think is it ok if i just tell him thru text! i just cant face him and im afraid of his reaction.

pls... its not my intention to hurt him... no matter how i cursed him and how i treat him bad he was really dont give up on me i dont know why!

this is hard coz whatever i said he never listened to me coz he insist that he wants me to be his wife.. its stupid coz he doesnt listened to me! that I CANT LOVE HIM i cant i cant! coz my heart belongs to someone esle.. i already told him that!

Yeah i understand what u saying.. its easy to say that words but if u were in my situation hope u will undersand what i feel..

as u know im also dont like that i hurt this guy! coz he is the perfect man that every woman dreams to have it. but though he is perfect i cant fake my heart! coz i really dont feel something special w/ that guy, but if u were in this case someone keep on bothering u everytime, seems like he is ur stalker and never give up though how many times u hurt him... i let him enter in my heart coz im tired almost 3 years he was courting me so i feel pity on him and trying to love and i wish that i can learned to love him but unfortunatly still i cant

well i admit, its shame on me!

thanks then and i appreciate ur opinion...

Its never too late to realize ur mistakes. if he loves u its going to be hard. but think about it either way ur leaveing so u wont have much connnections. it was bound to end some time. my opinion is people make mistakes but it takes a great person to admit to their mistake and try and fix it. and im sure all the people on here telling u stuff have been played and been cheated on. just remeber to learn from ur mistakes. i think ur a great person beacause u realize ur mistake and are trying to fix it...
*Alisha*

You are absolutely right every mistakes we've learned alot! and i guess all person have done a mistakes for their entire life!

thanks alisha!