Im so confused!

Last year... i went out with a guy and lets call him... "Joe" and we went out 3 times in that one year... and now im going out with a different guy "Darcy" and i cant stop thinking about the "Joe" he moved schools and i havnt seen him in a while and i still cant get him out of my head i never think about Darcy but Joe is ALWAYS on my mind... Darcy doesnt no i think about Joe Darcyu and Joe are friends... i feel bad for Darcy because im thinking about Joe... and i cant talk to Joe because he will tel Darcy.. and ARGG! so hard to explain... i like Darcy but i LOVE Joe... but i never See Joe.. any suggestions?

Hmm. I agree with the person above me, you're in need of closure from Joe. I mean, the fact that you love Joe makes it harder to let go. It kind of complicates things. But I'm sure you figured out that part by now, which is why you posted this. .But know this, after falling in love with someone, it's. .hard to forget. Sure, you could slowly let go, but the feelings will never go away completely. .

Like, I fell in love with this kid 3 years ago. And I still haven't been able to get him out of my mind. And he finally moved away last year. But I still can't stop thinking about him. And I keep having dreams about him, which makes me think of him even more. . [I never got closure from him]

You've acknowlegded your situation. So take it into your own hands. Get the closure you need. And don't make the same mistake I made and wait until it's too late.
kay? :]