Im jealous of his "girl" Best Friend..='[

I love my boyfriend to death and I learned to trust him after the first time he cheated on me.

Its just now there is this "friend" of his..She is so pretty and They hang out all day and every day except weekends..&& its hard for me. Since we go to different school, I actually have some of my friends that go to his school watch him for me...Thats strange I know, Thats just how jealous I am though.
I have been told they hug alot and always laugh and on Valentines Day she kissed him..I was so hurt but when I asked him He said "Its nothing, Baby, you know I love you, she doesnt mean as much as you do"..and he acted like everything was okay.
He says she is like a sister to him, && that she is there when I cant be...I feel lik she is replacing me...I dont know what to do!?!?!
I mean this jealousy thing and me always accusing him of liking her is messing us up really bad.
Lately all I can seem to do is cry over it, when Im so tempted to beat her a$$ but that will only lead to him leaving me, and her playing it off to get him to aks her out...What Do I Do?

*Thanks for Taking Time to Read && Hopefully help me*

"Its nothing, Baby, you know I love you, she doesnt mean as much as you do"..

So she means something obviously though and since he has cheated before of course you are going to be jealous and suspicious, but it really doesn't do any good. Go with your gut, instincts are usually good,they come from your brain and not your heart lol I guess you just have to ask yourself if you are ever going to really trust him and whether it's all worth it. I know no girl ever wants to put her lips on my bf and think it is nothing, it's something to me and why would he let it happen to begin with? You can be mad at her if you like but your bf is the only one who owes you any loyalty.

You obviously don't trust him, and he obviously hasn't done anything to earn your trust back after cheating on you.

If there's no trust, then dump him. Simple as that.

^ I understand where your coming from..its just we have been together for so long well..this is the longest relationship we both have ever been in(6months) and its scary because we always promise each other we wont leave but the more we fight to stay up the quicker we fall...
Plus after he cheated and apologized I cheated on him with my ex, && he cryed and lost trust and then we worked everything out

Well,my boyfriend must feel the same way that you do then because my 3 best friends are guys and I hug them a lot.But they ARE like my brothers.I have no attraction toward them at all.We're really just friends-maybe that's how your boyfriend and his ''girl'' best friend are.

^ I didnt want to cheat..once he cheated I cryed to my ex and my ex kept saying "He cheated and the only way to make him feel your pain is for you to do the same" so thats when it happened..I regreted it, i still so, but I do love my boyfriend and that will never change! We spend every second of the weekend together and he makes life so great for me and its obvious I do the same for him..its hard but because he knows im jealous of her and I know he is jealous of my ex but i dont know how to fix it..I want to make him choose between me and her but that could mess up everything, so im juss going to pretend its fine...

We cheated the first few weeks we dated..since then no one has come between and no one will && yea I do love him, I didnt then when we cheated but I do to this day and no matter what any one says that wont change

...no..your wrong........i dont want anyone esle...i cant...i...i dont know what to do anymore...i want it to work out, im willing to try....id give everything to be with him.......im not upset at all this..im just mad your right...and its so hard to hear/see....

I have trust in him...its just not as strong as it could be.....look the only reason i feel its ment to be is because i lost him once then once he came back i knew he wasnt leaving again...and he promised me that and since then we have had so many downs and we always pushed eachother up

...i dont want to be unhappy with him..i love being with him and when we are together I never think about the bad and what might happen..but when we are apart i absolutely die of wondering thoughts...in a few months we are moving in together and i think if by then we arent settled and happy ill let him go..

& As i was helping him sign the apartment papers he looked up at me and said "you look like her" and i asked who and he said "my beautiful wife" and i just melted and i felt like we would be together and no one could tear us apart..thats how it always is..when we are together we are inseperable, but when we are apart we let the world get the best of us..i thik us being/living together would make things seem right and it would help with the trust

Im sure many think its stupid but they just dont understand...I love when he says sweet things like that and he always grabs my hands and looks into my eyes and says he loves me and he wont go and thats how I know....you seem to have the love life, but I know what Im doing and maybe heartbreak may happen but i rather not back down now not knowing what could have been ya know..i rather have heartbreak and know it just wasnt meant to be rather than listening to everyone around me and and not knowing if we could have pulled through and show everyone we are meant to be

HonestlyI would say that maybe its not worth holding on to and moving in is stupid....and yea I know maybe i shouldnt wait and moving in may be a mistake..but everytime me and my bf fight and i accuse him of being slefish and not caring he crys and crys and trys so hard to change for me...he is not that type of guy but i can get all his tears and etc out of him...it just feels so right being together...i dont want anyone else...

He cheated the week we dated so we were no where near hot and heavy and he crys about how sorry he is to me all the time about that one night he messed up.Everyone deserves that second chance and i gave it to him and he gave me mine...once i did cheat he was ready to leave..it was amonth into it and he was falling fast...but we got through it..he learned to trust me and I forgave and forget...now im learning to trust

Thanks for trying anyways =]
Same to you and Luck with the baby

You've only been together for 6 months and he has already cheated on you? Then you cheated on him, now he is letting some other girl hang off of him, sounds like you deserve one another lol YOu get what you pay for, so if that's the kind of relationship you want go for it. Just a little fyi 6 months is but a mere drop in the bucket, if the 2 of you can't last that long without cheating on one another what hope is there for 20 years?

Well. I can see this from both points of view. Because I'm always in the other predicament. [The best friend one] Because my best friend is "hawt" [as girls would say] And all this girlfriends always have such problems with me. I hardly get to see him because he goes to a different school. But that's all he is to me, my best friend. He's always been there for me and I've always been there for him.

But in this case, I don't think it's the same as my situation. I don't think you really trust him, at least not completely. I think you have every right to feel suspicious. The hugs, I don't think, are all that big a deal. But the kiss, it shouldn't be too big a deal, but you should keep an eye on her.

And if you feel like he's letting her replace you, talk to him about it. Or you could just break up with him, but I don't think that's what you wanna do.

You aren't happy with things (clearly the two of you have different values), there's no trust (you BOTH cheated), and you're sending your friends to spy on him (which is incredibly immature, although I'm sure you realize that).

Six months seems like a long time when you're 16. But it isn't long enough to stay with him simply because of your history together. Look at this in the big picture. He is obviously not "the one" for you, and you should be having fun when you're a teenager. Date someone who you enjoy being around, and who you don't have to worry about when you're not there.

What a loser bf, HE CHEATED ON YOU ONCE, you shouldah kicked him where it hurt then!! and left him.