Two faced?

  • LoveBird99
    16 years ago

    A friend of mine tells me she thinks that her friend is being creepy to her. But she thanks him and practically smothers him with appreciation for his compliments and "admiration". She broke his heart last month by telling him to back off, yet she seems to really like being around him.
    I don't know what to believe from her at this point.

  • Poetess Lana
    16 years ago

    I wouldnt call that two-faced. maybe she doesnt want to hurt his feelings. there was a guy this year who REALLY liked me, so i tolerated him, but i must have done it a little too well, because then he asked me out. when i said no, he said "Thats okay, i dont mind being just friends with you." but he hasnt talked to me in weeks.

    talk to her and tell her how you feel, maybe she doesnt realize shes being as cool with him as you see.

  • LoveBird99
    16 years ago

    Thanks! I just e-mailed her, but I haven't gotten a response yet. I tried not to be harsh

  • jeffery sechrest
    16 years ago

    From a guys point of view and on personall experience id say aometimes us guys just dont know when to much is enough but tell her how you feel. Sorry for intruding if this is personla i just figure a males piont of view was need.

  • LoveBird99
    16 years ago

    Thanks!!
    And the male's point of view is well appriciated

  • LoveBird99
    16 years ago

    So I told my friend how I felt and we made up, but it's still a bit confusing. . . dunno, I probably just feel left out.

  • AJ
    16 years ago

    This sounds just like one of my friends and myself, she loves hanging out with me but for some reason will never date me....

    i dont know what is going through her head so i dont know what to say

  • jeffery sechrest
    16 years ago

    I dont have an more to say but when i think of something i will say it.

  • LoveBird99
    16 years ago

    To two posts up ^
    ^maybe just tell her how you feel someday.

    To previous post ^
    She's one of my best friends, and we worked things out. We both got some things confused.

  • TwistedAngel xx
    16 years ago

    Glad things worked out.
    if it happens again u can always pm me to chat

    xx

  • LoveBird99
    16 years ago

    Thanks

  • LoveBird99
    16 years ago

    We made up, but my mom just yelled at HIM and told him to basically never contact me again. He was one of my best friends! At least I get to keep the friend that is a girl in this situation, but I have been really depressed since I lost him!