My Best Friend and His Girlfriend.

-Sorry this ended up being longer than I intended it to be.

You know. My best friend is a guy most girls would like. Because he pretty good looking and he has an accent. [Hah. The accents cute. It's funny to listen to him talk.] lol. Anyway. He's been with quite a few girls and they all have such a problem with me. And it's not like I've done anything. The second he mentions my name, it's like something goes off in their head and they assume that I'm one of those girls who will try to steal with away or something. It's like HELLO! best friends.

My ex best friend use to be his girlfriend. He was completely devastated when she broke up with. It was pretty intense. Almost a year, broke up through a text. I was there for him and I'm the one who helped him through it all. And he's helped me through a lot too. His girlfriends don't know or understand the bond we share. So they assume that their situation is like one of those movie types, where the two best friends are secretly in love with each other. And the guy dates another girl. So the girl best friend tells him she's in love with him. So he'll dump the other girl. And then the two best friends live happily ever after.
No. It doesn't work like that And that's not a situation either. But anyway the point of this post is because I think he really likes the girl he's with now. And I'm trying really hard to like her. But I know she has a problem with me. And I don't think he realizes what's going on, that she's trying to compete with me. And she's trying to take my best friend away from me. wtf is that?!

Well maybe you could talk to your best friend or his girlfriend about it ?

Myabe a little girl to girl talk, inform her you are nothing more than best friends and you don't want her to feel threatened by you, in fact if she really liked him she would want to be friends with you or atleast get to know you.

Maybe I am just a freakish girl, unless someone is doing something inappropriate with my S.O. I could care less who he is friends with. Being jealous and possessive will usually do nothing but ruin a relationship.

I agree. Jealousy is a waste to me. It really takes a lot to get me jealous. If I was dating someone, I really wouldn't care if he was friends with girls. Because he has girl friends and I have guy friends. I wouldn't want HIM telling ME that I can't have certain friends, you know.

i dunno. The thing is, though, she hasn't met me yet. And I haven't met her either. I was suppose to meet her yesterday, but complications got in the way. I hung out with my best friend at the mall, but she was. .wherever.
Like, I was suppose to go on monday [cuz it was no school] to see him and her, but I got busy and couldn't make it. But here's a part of the conversation they'd had.
[S] is his girlfriend. [W] is him.

S: So, we're gonna go to the beach on monday.
W: I can't. .
S: Why not?
W: I have to meet my friend Viviane at the mall.
S: *her face drops* So. you're ditching me to hang out with another girl?!
W: Well. She's one of my best friends.
S: Ugh, w/e. What time are you meeting her? Because we're going to the beach early.
W: I dunno, whenever she gets to the mall.
S: Well. Are you still gonna come with me to the beach?
W: yeah. Are you coming to the mall to meet Viviane?
S: YES.

the coversation leads on. But that's all I remember really. She's jealous that he hangs out with me, since she's not there. But it's not like we'd do anything. We had a thing once, but I don't think it's really anything. The timing was off, and we were just like w/e. But it's not like it's anything worth mentioning, cuz we never did anything. Everything was secretive and hidden, you know.

I think it's typical for young girls to want to spend every waking moment with their new boyfriend. Honestly, I wouldn't worry too much about it. Just try and be understanding even if it means you will get to see your best friend less.

If she's planning on sticking around for a while, then she will get over this little jealousy phase, and probably make an effort at friendship with you.