Is this right?

  • Allie
    16 years ago

    My friends told me to call the cops, some of my friends said that they'd be more than happy to take me into their own homes.
    My dad sometimes has this physco temper when ever I sem to be around. He uses the guilt-trip, has accused me of using drugs, blames things on me that I never do, calls me fat, and sometimes he hits me. Not like the kind of hitting that leaves marks or briuses. Like slapping and holding me against a door with his hands on my throat. I regret everything that I've ever said to him, and I hope that he burns in Hell because he hurts my sister too. (he's hit her head against a table and kicked her hard enough to leave bruises.)
    What should I do?

  • Noir
    16 years ago

    No... its not right, you're father needs anger management, you need to call social services... they may try and place you in an environment that's safe...

  • brokenmind
    16 years ago

    I think you know its not right and you shouldnt have to put up with it! i know he's your father but you dont deserve to be treat like that. i think you need to maybe report him. may i ask where your mother is in the situation?

  • Jaime
    16 years ago

    Call the cops. It's a much better option than moving in with your friends, because you can't leave your sister in this situation. How old is she?

  • Allie
    16 years ago

    My mom doesn't think we fight that much, and sometimes when we make him angery(such as not putting away our shoes or not cleaning our rooms or the house up to his standards), he sometimes yells at her. One time I overheard her saying things to her friends, telling them that sometimes he grabs her wrist and twists it. My sister is 12, and she doesn't mean to, but she makes my dad angery too, just by crying in front of him! I'm 15, by the way.

  • brokenmind
    16 years ago

    I think you need to explain to you mum how hes making you feel and she what she says. or even first speak to your sister and ask her opinion. then maybe you could speak to your mum together. if not as the older sister i think you should pluck up the courage and talk to her yourself. just explain he's hurting you and you feel unsafe and uneasy around him. tell her that your younger sister is effected by it too. say you know what hes done to you. tell her that you will stick by her and support her if she decides to leave. if nothing is done then i suggest you take action yourself. but this wont be easy, especially if your mother isnt willing to support you. its a toughy but i hope things get better for you.

  • X Kashies Misery X
    16 years ago

    LOL sounds like my father, accept my father doesnt hit me or my sister, he is the patronizing type....I suggest call the police, call family welfare or something, someone who can get you and your sister out of that bad situation..

    if not....if you cant and not upto it, call the childrens help line, ask them what to do. 1800 55 1800

    pretty sure thats the number

    <3 good luck!!
    take care