My freinds are sucidal

  • XLOSTxxANDxxWANDERINGX
    16 years ago

    I have a lot of freinds that are sucidal and who were
    Do you think im settin myself up to get hurt
    i mean i love these kids they are the only ones who i can relate with but i wont be able to handle if they hurt themselves

  • Once an Angel
    16 years ago

    Yes, you are probably setting yourself up for some hurt, but I really can't blame you because I do the same thing. You love these people and that is why you want to help them. But remember, the minute you are brought down to that dark place with them, not only will you be unable to help them, but you will need help yourself. It is good to help others, so just find a balance bt friends that need your help and those that are okay with themselves, so you can have give and take friendships, instead of giving all the time. Good luck, bless your heart sweetie.

  • brokenmind
    16 years ago

    Chances are they wont commit suicide. if you think how many suicidal people they are out there and the amount of suicides there actually is. but just talk to them try n make them appreciate life. & if it ever gets really serious then you need to tell a parent or whatever no matter how much they tell you not to. it might seem like betrayal but its better than them being dead.
    also what might help is if you explain to them how much pain it will cause you because you love them so much. the fact that they know someone really cares might be enough to stop them.

  • XLOSTxxANDxxWANDERINGX
    16 years ago

    The thing is though
    most of the time i feel how they do
    and it is hard not to let them get me down
    I love them to death
    thanx guys

  • XLOSTxxANDxxWANDERINGX
    16 years ago

    Heres the thing
    i go to a theraputic skool
    and they have help
    its like my situatiion with som of them
    People cant always help

  • Once an Angel
    16 years ago

    If you are in the same situation as them, you have to be the bigger person and get help yourself. People can't fix your problems for you, but they can get you on the right track to fix it yourself, and they you can pass on that knowledge to help others. While you are struggling with depressed and suicidal feelings, you are not in a position of effectively helping someone with the same problem, you'll just bring eachother down. You can be a support to them, and love them, but do not try to solve life for them, try doing it for yourself first.

  • XLOSTxxANDxxWANDERINGX
    16 years ago

    I know but ...
    i cant help hangin around them becuz i love them and it is so much easier to relate with someone that knows how i feel
    i want to support them and myself
    but..
    idk ive been tryin to support my slef for a lon g time its really hard

  • Pamela
    16 years ago

    Girl, just keep hanging around with them! supporting yourself is really hard, but I guess that you will support them and they will support you. That's what friends do! Friends talk about it, talk things in and out of each others heads... that's what they do! I've got the same, my BFF and me are both doing aweful, but we love each other to death and we tell each other that we're loved even though we don't believe each other, but it helps us. Seriously, stick around with them and have a talk if you don't feel comfi in this situation. Tell 'em you love them and want to support them but that you find it hard sometimes. just be honest with them, but don't let them down.

  • Jessica
    16 years ago

    Something someone told me something before I killed myself once, and I never tried again.

    "Suicide does not mean you're killing only yourself, you're killing everyone around you. If you do not care for any of your friends, family, loved ones, then end your life if you must. Just understand the hell you are going to cause because of it."

  • X Kashies Misery X
    16 years ago

    Ur only 13 are they 13 to? cause i mean god damn, why the hell, they dont even no what to be sad is...........

    but i suggest you talk em out of tryna kil emselves, i mean, let them no u care about them, and if they are gona continue doin all this emo crap that they will loose you, i thnik thats a bad situation to be in, i would tell em to stop it it aye, cause thats not a healthy relationship....

    tell em to quit it,
    moniter them how they say stuff n w.e and pick them up on it
    if they keep doin it dont care, make u feel really worried and uncomfortable, drop em, u dont need friends whodont care what they do to u by their actions

  • Jessica
    16 years ago

    My Toxic World, let me explain how I feel about that post.

    A four year old could have seen hell and beyond and end up killing himself by age 10.
    Since when does suicide have an age limit?
    Now I will agree that some reasons for suicide are childish, and they probably havent seen real pain. But those people are still mentally and emotionally unstable and require medical attention, in my opinion. You can't tell someone, suicidal or not, to completely stop the way they act. Most people like that are too weak to handle it and telling them to stop the "emo crap" will more likely break them than save them.
    I am not insulting you, just merely stating my own opinion

  • XLOSTxxANDxxWANDERINGX
    16 years ago

    Wait MY TOXIC WORLD why should i stop bein there frineds that couyld make sh*t worse
    suicide does not have an age limit

  • XLOSTxxANDxxWANDERINGX
    16 years ago

    No offense
    but i dont like the word emo
    its offensive
    so do NOT call my freinds emo!!!!

  • Jessica
    16 years ago

    Don't listen to them. You see, "emo" is just a word. A word or a symbol only has as much power as you put into it. If you don't give the word such power over you, it will mean nothing. Dont let a made up word have power over you or your friends :)

  • XLOSTxxANDxxWANDERINGX
    16 years ago

    Yo dis some bulcrap
    yall gonna sit there and call my freinds emo
    how the hell would u know
    dont u dare taLLK ABOUT MY FREINDS LIKE THAT
    NEVER EVER AGAIN