Love not given back

  • JAZMIN
    16 years ago

    I have a boyfriend and weve been together for about 1 1/2 and I told him the other day that I loved him...he didnt say it back...it didnt really bother me that he didnt say it back...because I told him that I wanted him to say it when he really meant it... and last night he told me that he feels really bad not saying that he loves me back but I told him not to worry about it because I wanted him to mean it when he said it.. he felt really bad... i made him feel like crap but I dont want him to feel like that... now I feel that he might not ever say that he loves me too...it seems like he is doubting himself....i dont know what to think!!!

  • ABake
    16 years ago

    Well I am guessing you mean 1 1.2 months.
    Well I must say that you have got to give him credit for being honest. Just give it time, love isn`t something that is rushed. Over time and as you two become closer then it might just might be appropriate to say I love you.

    I wouldn`t worry about it. Just give it time and stop trying to rush things :D

  • JAZMIN
    16 years ago

    I do give him alot of credit for being honest...
    I know its not rushed and i dont want to make it seem like that...
    I am just afraid to get hurt again and that he might just never love me like i love him...
    I am not trying to rush him...I'm not...and
    actually I am going to tell him that today! that i dont want him to feel rushed if thats how he feels!!! Thanks!!!

  • ABake
    16 years ago

    I agree with TPAM.
    Just give him time.
    :D

  • SomewhereAmongThePieces
    16 years ago

    I overuse the words... say them before I mean them.
    My advice... say them when you mean them no sooner no later :)

  • JAZMIN
    16 years ago

    Ok... so I talked to my boyfriend last night and he called me once the whole day and we only talked for like 10 minutes.. I ended up crying after because I felt that we are drifting apart... like he didnt say "baby" or "i miss you" things like that which he usually tells me... i dont know...
    now I feel that maybe loving him...came to quickly but i cant stop my feelings....

  • Sweet lig
    16 years ago

    Hmm all u have to do is to observe in the next other day.. if he still in that same way. maybe he has a problem, he is busyor there is something bothering for him.. dont be so over reacted... maybe dont be too rush,guys sometimes are like that!

  • TwistedAngel xx
    16 years ago

    Yeah he will say it wen he means it and trust me that means the most to you
    hope things are well now
    pm me if u need 2 chat or vent

    xx

  • JAZMIN
    16 years ago

    I know i have learned to understand that from him... and lately he has been more attached to me... and seems like he really cares for me...
    Thanx!! =]