Heroin

So i had a bf leave me for heroin and now i think im falling for another person who dose it but hes going to get help soon i dont no wat to do

Heroin is not worth f***ing with. Unless he has activly gotten help, don't even consider it, and even then, think twice. You're fifteen, and trust me, you dont wont to be with miles of anyone involved with the stuff.

I mean, if he has honestly put forth the effort to quit and has gotten help, then yeah, there may be hope. But seriously, you need to stop associating with active abusers, it can drag you down. I know from experience.

Umm no hes going into detox starting today...and im 16 thnk you very much

Yes being fifteen/sixteen automatically makes her incompetant to make decisions for herself, or have people who deal with adult issues.

Painted...don't patronise!!

So i had a bf leave me for heroin and now i think im falling for another person who dose it but hes going to get help soon i dont no wat to do"

You know the symptoms of heroin use, and you'll know if you're lover is actually seeking help in the next few days. I think all you can ever do, is guide him to the right direction, and be there for him, and be an example of what he'll gain if he continues with his detoxing and rehababilitation.

Best of luck...

Follow your heart, its never wrong

You're interested in him, but are you interested in what comes with his lifestyle. Until I saw him clean and sober, I wouldn't even have to ask anyone whether or not I should date him, in my own head the answer would be a definite NO.

Stop falling for the helpless and help yourself :) Good day.

Grow up and stop going for losers. That's about all you can do. And ps...there's no helping a heroin addict. I know,my brother's been addicted for 15 years. So keep in mind it'll be a life long struggle.

Follow your heart its never wrong........I'm not so sure about that,what about the young girl who falls in love with the abusive boyfriend,or the drug addict or alcoholic ,I think sometimes your emotions can stear you wrong,just my thought.

^^ very true Deana

Yeah get a guy who is clean and drug free.
loves already confusing sometimes.
add drugs and that will just make it worse.

"DRUGS R BAD MMMMk?"

lolz

xx

My dad is gone he was abusive ok and wow i never said i was in love with the guy i rly just meant he was hot and he just finished detox thnks oo and hes 17 not tht bad of a assge diference

Ok

Hey dudes sry about the heroin shit tht was my best friend i didnt know she went on my name

Fire's hot too but I hope you wouldn't dive into a pit of it lol

I did change my password she wanted to go on here to see if ne one would tlk to her about it because i refuse to

I did change my password she wanted to go on here to see if ne one would tlk to her about it because i refuse to

Thts a good idea thnks for telling me ill tell her

Hold on sec... he just finished detox....
thats it...and? that means what?'
that he hasnt done dope for 2 days...
thats some serious progress, jump up and down why dont ya!, if he's so serious, why didnt he stay for inpatient rehab? at least 2 weeks, 3 weeks, or whatever the facility offers, detox is a goddamn joke, no matter how much you care about him, there isnt a single thing you can do to help him until HE is willing to do it for himself and put forth the effort, i'm not ripping on you, thats your decision to make, i am a recovering addict, and ive seen and heard a zillion horror stories kiddo, and love/like/lust or whatever the hell your feeling for this or any other addict is NOT GONNA be enough to help them...PERIOD...you are potentially putting yourself in a very dangerous situtation..be very careful, or tell your friend that, or whoever was posting that stuff...

I was in the same situation as you and believe me, when they say they are going to get help that is just an excuse to keep you happy. do not and I repeat do not go out with a guy who does drugs because they will always choose the drugs over you.

Addiction is a force to be reckoned with. Stronger than man, stronger than faith, and stronger than even love.

Remember that.

I may not have done heroin, but I did do a lot of stupid shit. And from experience, its not a simple "Ok, Im going to do this and we're going to be a happy couple, WEE!" thing. Its far from that. Being addicted is like having a lack of oxygen, and requiring something foreign to breath. Its like feeling hollowed and downed without the aid of the drug to pick you up. This guy, until the day he dies, will always have problems with the drug. He may never abuse again, but you wait and see, it may cross his mind. He may have a relapse a few months down the road and bam, back to step one.

You're risking a lot for nothing by taking this relationship. Not everyone who's addicted to something will shit on you. But not everyone who breaks the habit can keep the monkey off their back.

I know, and several other people in this thread know. Whether from experiencing it themselves, or through watching a friend succumb to a drug. Nothing good ever comes from being around it.

Im going to be blunt as I possibly can. If you're smart, you'll stay away. If not, well... what more is there to say?

I'll never touch drugs again. I refuse to. Id rather take my life on the spot than do some of the things I've done again, but what makes you think he thinks like that to?

Where's the proof?

Where's it at in writing?

Its not. You can't lay trust in your heart this time.

And thats for your "friend".

He is in impatient he just finished the detox and is in the impatient part now

My best friends aunt is a herion addict, she has been clean for a year now after doing a 1 year stint in rehab. This is the longest she has ever been clean, so we are hopeful, but this is her 6th time being clean. Whether it is you or your "friend" I can honestly say if you have never dealt with this kind of thing, you do not want to. It is mean, nasty and dirty, full of pain and heartache. Too many people think drugs are all fun and games and usually that is because they have never seen the down and out side or they believe nothing will ever happen to them. You have enough problems to deal with when you are young, why would you ever want to risk something like this?

Appalled? no...just laughing to myself outloud at how ignorant you are to the plight of an addict, not just a heroin addict, it doesnt matter what substance they are addicted to.... alcohol is better for you?...go visit a detox center and watch an alcoholic detox for 2 weeks under 24 hr nurses supervision due to the fact that they could have a seizure or a stroke at any given time, and thats just an example of 1 drug that you think is "better for you"..educate yourself...my wish for you is a positive one, and that is...that you never become an addict yourself, because if you were, you WOULD understand, that when you are one, NO drugs are better for you...slowing down as you put it, is a fallacy...

You say your ex left you for a drug, that's kind of sad. Kind of very, extremely, indescribably sad for you...especially for him. How pathetic.

Anyway, you should probably stay away from drug addicts. Didn't your mama ever tell you to...Forget it. But really, I vote NO.

I believe Jarred that truly you have no clue in drug dependancy and use...

You can't give a herion addict, an alternative drug because

1. Herion is a class A drug, while your recommendations are merely B or C class... You can't use drugs that have virtually no effect to a addict of that calibre.

2. You're not solving the problem merely avoiding it by giving him/her a lesser drug which isn't helping the dependancy, now is it?

My advice is 6 month rehab at best

Mr. jarred....i left you with a positive message...and this post has to do with drugs...and it is not my responsibility to educate the world and try save the humanity, but being an addict all i can do is give suggestions from my own experience... and HELL YEAH if i can help one addict, and steer them in a better direction and possibly save their life, then, i feel what im doing what i'm supposed to be doing, which is trying to help a another addict, because what you might not understand, is that using ANY type of drugs is a life or death situation, when i went to rehab, out of the 60 people there, 18 of them are now dead...and that doesnt include the people who never made it there,many of them were friends of mine, i am not trying to make an argument out of this, i am trying to enlighten and inform you.. and others that may not know some of the consequences...because, i am an addict in recovery and i do have at least some first hand knowledge on this topic...i am not a know it all...but i do know enough to have a very strong opinion...peace...