...should i be happy...??

Ok so i broke up with my bf because he was depressing and i had a lot of stress on my shoulders so i gave up because it was starting to hurt to bad...

so we have been over for about a month now...

should i be over him by now..??

we were only going out for 4 months....

is it time 4 me to move on...??

should i be happy that it is over...??

and find someone new...??

i am over being mad... and depressed...now what..??

i am just lookin 4 some advice...

plz help
-mandy

Yeah, you should move on. There had to be a logical reason for you to leave him in the first place right?

I think if you still have feelings for him, then you're thinking about getting back with him. But if you do that, who's to say it won't turn out the same as the first time.

Its always good to try new people. If you can't get over him by then... try going back to him.

It takes time to get over someone, so might as well spend that time trying out different possibilities instead of being lonely.

Just my opinion, hope it helps! :P

Should i be over him by now..??

Not necessarily, do you want to be?

we were only going out for 4 months....

is it time 4 me to move on...??

If you want to move on

should i be happy that it is over...??

If you were not happy before it was over

and find someone new...??

It's only been a month, if you happen upon someone new go for it, but if you are this confused waiting a while could be best

i am over being mad... and depressed...now what..??

Live

Why was he so depressing? If you're regretting leaving him now, maybe you shouldn't have left him when he needed you most?
I don't know the full story, i'm just guessing but depression is a very common illness, both me and my fiance have had it at intervals in our relationship and we needed each other to help us through it.
I hope you did the right thing and didn't make him feel worse, especially if you still love him.
If you didn't love him, you probably did the right thing but for the love of god, don't go back to him and confuse the poor guy even more.
If you're not over him but want to be, Leave Him Be, if you don't want to be over him, you better be sure you want to be with him through thick and thin before asking for him back. And thats if he'll even take you back
Pm me if you need help of i have the wrong end of the stick
Good luck in whatever you decide to do
*Gem*

"Its always good to try new people. If you can't get over him by then... try going back to him."

She dumped him remember? Why would he take her back when she left him in his time of need? It's not that easy

You should be happy now, I think. You detached yourself from someone who wasn't good for you, so you should be better off now than you were when you were with him.

Yeah be happy and some new guy will see you as a happy gorgeous girl and then you will be happy with him

dont get caught up on the past and prepare for the future

:D gd luck

xx