Feeling a bit down...

Okay, so I suppose it all happened two Saturdays ago. I drunk dialled a mate from uni who I really like and she got really pissed off with me and hasn't been the same since, before that she was all happy and flirty around me, now she's not at all. Then last Thursday things got terrible, I found out that my Grandma died and this week I was at her funeral and spending time with family. Then last night I was out at the pub with a mate and his older brother and I can't remember too well but near the end of the night I remember breaking down and crying a lot. Now I'm feeling worse than I was because I made an ass of myself infront of them and I said sorry to my mate but he hasn't got back to me yet. I can't believe how I've gone from being happy, having a good time and getting on with things to feeling embarrassed, confused, stupid, not happy at all and how fast the good time feels like it has changed into a dark time where I just don't seem to have any inspiration to get anything done anymore.

Its funny how happiness can turn to sadness how sadness can turn to hat and how hate can turn to hysteria and how hysteria causes us to faint !

Aww thats really awful. i do agree though maybe you should lay off the drink or keep it to a minimum it can make us all do stupid things i for one no all to well lol. i think if your mates were real mates though they would have stuck by you in your difficult times not ignore you, you should talk to them about it when you get the chance say that your sorry. and maybe find someone you can trust to talk to when you feel down. feel free to p/m me anytime i'm not sure i sould help but i'll listen if you just need to vent. good luck with everything hope things start looking up for you soon xxx

You can't stop your drinking, if your anything like me you just need to learn how to take it in moderation. You think you lost the girl because you drunk dialed her and made an ass out of yourself?

Maybe there is an underlying issue you never noticed? I remember this one time I had a huge thing for a girl, and I wanted her to go to a party with me, (had alcohol there), and when I asked again later that night she almost flipped out on me. Turns out she had a bad past with people around her drinking and abusing her, so it hit a nerve deep within her.

Don't so much apologize to her, but start drinking in stable amounts that wont make you do something you're going to regret. Maybe try to take her out somewhere if you got a thing for this girl. Try to rebuild it back up.

^your first line is a really bad thing to say to a .. potentional alcoholic? i don't know, it seems that when you're drunk you do stupid things, and you drink because you're upset. in which case you're an emotional drinker and you need to learn to let go in other ways. i would say stop drinking until your problems and self esteem issues have been solved.. and then drink in moderation. always stop at your limit. i have an alcoholic dad and it's hell for everybody around you.. i'm not saying you're an alcoholic.. but drinking is never a good thing to get hooked on. take a break from drinking for a while until you sort yourself out.