How do I help my friend? How do I support her? How do I deal it?

wow! this is so sad! yik yak is right. what your friend needs the most is someone who loves her and that will be with her no matter what and to help her get through all of this. im so sorry that you have to go through this and im sorry that your friend feels like she has to kill herself. did you figure out why she wants to do this? i sort of know what you are going through... you see. this guy at my school whom ive known now for 4-5 years has just the other day said that he wanted to kill himself. i had no clue what to do. so i walked down there to his house and tlked to him for a brief moment. im not sure if it worked but it was worth a try. i told him that he has a purpose in this world and that he has friends and family that love him very much. i asked him why he would want to throw all that away.. why would he want to cause then so much pain. he just looked at me. im still not so sure of what to do.. at the moment all i can think of is tlk to him. be there for him. and thats what you need to do. just be the best friend that she needs. if things get worse and she starts showing more signs that shes gonna kill herself or anything to that extent you have to get help fast. i was on top of stn mtn when i heard a story that really touched my heart and that i think that you would like. just reply giving me your email and ill send it to you. i hope that everything goes well and im always here if you ever need to tlk or if you want me to tlk to your friend... ill be more than happy to help! ill try my best to help. i give you my word on that. and to tell you the truth... i was sort of the same way... i hated life... i didnt want to be here. but then i met some ppl and they became my best friends. thats all i needed. was a friend. ok well i know that this was very long but i just wanted to help. remember that i am here if ever you need me.

*~norma~*

True, this is very sad.

Just remember that the best friend is the one that just stands silently by you, never leaving, never judging.