Does he really care still?

I went through a hard time just 3 month ago i was dating this guy i lost my virginity to him and he joined the marines came back and went for more training he came home for christmas and didnt tell me his little sister told me he was dating his cousin so i asked him on myspace and he told me his little sister was lying to me but that were breaking up because he dont want to hurt me...ok i let it go but i knew he was lying to me
so the women he is supposely dating ims me on day and tells me that theyve been together be for me and him got together ok i delt with that there now ingaged
but hes coming home next month for a couple weeks and hes already telling people that were still dating and everything like that and i have a bf that i care alot about what do i do

You should tell him to stop being so childish about a situation he isn't involved in anymore. he lied to you, pretty much ignored you, got together with another girl (supposedly his cousin?) and is now trying to claim you're together.. well he should just get lost. you're over, you're not interested anymore and make it clear to your boyfriend that nothing is going on. also tell him about the situation before he finds out about it himself.

Yeah thats digusting his cousin?!!??!! right, there ---- creep.........yeah are you sure this stuff is true?? can you really trust the eprson who is telling you this?? but yeah it sounds like it IS true, and if so tell him to go get f*cked....seriously, his a ;pser i get people lyk that...tell him your not to be messed with and that your peed off and its over and to grow the hell up

Sometimes when people have strong feelings, they're blinded from common sense. (Nice way of saying you're blind)

It sounds like he cheated and you moved on. Don't be afraid to put it bluntly. If thats the case, forget about him. Even if he still "cares" he lied once. Odds are, he'll do it again.

Your call. But I think you should stick with the guy you're with now. At least he didn't cheat ;)

Yeah hes coming back next moth and im really worried that hes gonna try something when my bfs not around
it really sucks because i still have feelings but in a way ive moved on im very happy with who im with
but i cant take the drama i have better things to do with my life then deal with a 18 and 28 year olds being immuture

Just because he is coming home doesn't mean you have to see him, since you have a bf I would assume you have moved on, so not much good can come from meeting up, tell him to take a hike.

He did this and he is a Marine my x fieance is a Marine so I know how Marines are their modow is semp fi which means TRUST && HONESTY.. I am sorri but that guy is no Marine... Yes, that "Marine" NEEDS to GROW UP... dont dwell on this try to move on I know that that is hard but rememeber... "there are other fish in the sea grab a pole and go fishin" If you need to talk Ojust PM me I am always here... I see that this is really hard but really move on find someone who you know will be there miliary or not...

**Mi$@**

Why would he still be telling people you two are dating if he is ingaged...that doesnt seem to make too much sense to me.

Um, its not rocket science, he clearly lied to you.. wants you both...screw him. nuff said.

Yeah im happy with the person im with the only problem is he thinks that my family still likes him and he wants to come and see everyone when he comes back and even if he dont come to my house he lives 3 streets away from me and im in the middle of the town so he has to come down my street to go anywhere else in my town
im just worried that if i see him then ill belive all his lies and bull crap
i just want him to stay out of my life hes messed with my feelings and broke my heart and i dont need this bull krap

And that is exactly what you should say if he tries ta talk to you and then walk away.

Will yourself not to believe his lies and crap anymore
you know how he is and what he can be like
so your not oblivious to it
gd luck neways
xx

I have nearly the same thing
my ex is not going out wif me (wwnn) coz of his stuid friends.... N WE BOTH LOVE EACH OTHER. we talk every night on the phone and everything. we meet up. he's even comming over my house to watch movies.... so im wondering..... if he using me ..... u were going out still just not telling anybody.... and you know how hard it is.... when ur truly in love wif sumone and all u wanna do is tell sum one