What should i do??

My boyfriend told me that last sunday he had his ex gurlfriend over and she kissed him and gave him a bj....but he said that he pushed her off but i dont think he did what should i do...any ideas

Are you serious? Why do you even have to ask?

But anyways....

Personally I'd dump him. Who needs a B/F that invites his ex over and ends up having oral sex? No one. Seriously get rid of him, he has no respect for women obviously. He cheated on you, and decided to tell you, so he could get away with it. How many other times has he done that? Do you know? Most likely not. He is trying to kill 2 birds with 1 stone. He wants 1 thing and 1 thing only, and he got it, if not from you, then his ex. Honestly get rid of this guy, he has no class, and has no respect.

Aww That awful sorry huni! i say you need to cut all ties with him yes he was honest about it but his ex shouldn't of been there in the first place, trust me if you forgive him now then he willl think he can walk all over you again and again. meet someone who will treat you with respect and don't settle for second best beacause your worth more. good luck for the future huni i hope you make the right decision xxx

Ok well first lets think about the postitives. Um at least he told you.

Alright now for reality.

Its one thing to kiss her. (Yea i said kiss her, it takes two to tango and he had to have done something to make her think it was ok) AND then she gave him a bj? Thats a whole other thing. Thats disrespect to you and your relationship and im sorry but im surprised they didnt do anything else. I mean he had to of kissed her back and let her go down and then just realized while she was doing it that it was wrong.. but its too late for all that! You need to ask him again what really happened because nobody just comes to their ex's house like that. I just dont like the situation and i dont believe him right now ....im sorry.

He told me that she was over there to watch the races and he went to go workout in his workout room and after a while she came in there and i have asked him a billion times to tell me the truth and it jus seems like he is lying cause she lost her virginity to him and he lost his to her and then yeah it jus doesnt make sense to me and he lied to me cause he said he was gonna have some friends over and it was jus her and he didnt answer his fone all day and grrr it jus makes me mad i mean i didnt do anything to deserve this and he still tells her that he loves her and that jus upsets me and makes me very angry you kno wat i mean

Indeed I must agree with Painted Persona. Just leave him, he obviously doesn't love you, because if he truly did, he'd have you over instead of his ex. Let him go, you deserve better.

Ya i guess so but it hurts i mean like i said wat did i do to deserve this....all i ever did was be honest with him told him how i felt and all this other stuff i feel like he jus lies to me constantly but then wen i told him i thought that we shouldnt date he started to cry and i was like well its not my fault you did wat you did and then he yeah i dunno i hate relationships like this

Ok listen, he is acting that way because he wants the best of both worlds, He wants you, but he still wants his ex.

As hard as it may be, I would say leave him. There will be better and nicer guys out there trust me. You have your whole life ahead of you still, you are young, don't let this guy ruin/tear you apart.

I'll be honest, it is hard to break-up, they are never fun. You'll cry, you'll be in sorrow, etc. But eventually you'll get over the matter and move on. It will take time, but over time you will look back and thank yourself for getting out of the relationship.

Ya i guess so well atleast i will have friends that will talk to me and make me feel better and cheer me up after i do this....

Thank you guys you were all a big help and now i gotta go do what i think will be best for me....Well atleast i have friends and other people that will help me through this thanks so much you guys/gurls

Thanks yeah im gonna go do that now and he pushed her off after she started which is kinda hard to believe but i guess hes losing a really good gurl which would be me lol um...yeah his lost not mine i guess

When she/he pulled down his pants did he not think to stop then??
Jesus love, he sounds like a complete idiot if he thinks it's an accident, i mean did she trip, fall and he face landed on his already exposed thing?
I don't think so sweets, he's a player and a bad one at that

I agree he is a player and those tears you were talking about those were just tears because he know he messed up and he was losing you for a trashy little thing like his ex. Just let him go and if he starts crying again just throw a box of tissue his way.