Cancer

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Sry but i didnt read ur entire post but... i just wanted 2 say.. my mom has cance.. and it is tuff.. rly rly hard to go threw.. and i am still havin a hard time with it...

she has breast cance...she has had it 4 a year now...

and yea chemo will make her weak but it will all fall into place..

dont worry it is extermely hard yea but it will get better with time

its scary

but it is a fight that you can never win so losen up and face it... thats what i had to do.. and now i am i guess ok with it.. still not completely accepted it..but it is getting better and trust me my mother has had a hard road with it... but if you need advice or help from someone who has been their and done that.. and knows the results and all that good stuff i am here!...

-mandy

First of all the only thing you can do is be there, and which you have.

When they asked you to go to this it is because they CONSIDER you family and want you to be there with them.

It is far more appreciative to be accepted as family than to be born in to it. We do not choose who births us; however, we do choose who we accept and let into our hearts.

If I were you I would go. For you and for them. They need and want you there; if not they never would have asked.

Talk to them.. just be there and hold them. Let them know how you feel as well and that you love her also.

~~Sher

I see you live in Australia..get her to contact the service Canteen..they will be able to help her GREATLY. my best friends dad got diagnosed with cancer when we were kids...she would have broken down without that service..best of luck xox

Well my mom also has cancer she has lung cancer and i hate seeing her go throgh her therapy i see her so sad and deprssed and its not eays 4 me but i hope to god she makes it through because she is my everything and because of her i am who i am today and i lover her and i think u should think positive also and help her through

My mom has galbladder cancer that seeped into her liver, and she just got done with her first 6 week session of chemo two weeks from last friday. she couldn't get another treatment right away cuz she either has another sinus infection, the flu, or phnamonia(sp?). it's been hard on everyone, especially my dad. he's been edgier that usual now, thinking he can do everything, but then he complains that we don't help enough, and most of the time, he takes it out on me. my mom tells me that he;s under alot of stress, but he doesn't know how to ask for help. my mom mostly sleeps and struggles to sleep the whole night, without getting up for another pain killer. i am now the new 'mom' around the house, so i cook, clean, do laundry, and look after my sister when my dad works. but i'm very hopeful, and she's slowly getting better.