Afraid

  • ForeverXSilenced
    16 years ago

    My friends mom has cancer and could die from it but my friend doesnt know.
    Im so afraid about what will happen to my friend if her mom does die. I know I wont know what to say but I just feel like I need to tell someone

  • XLOSTxxANDxxWANDERINGX
    16 years ago

    Wow that is a tough sitiuation
    i think you should convince the mom to talk to her child it will be upsetin for him/her to find out her mom knew and didnt tell her
    IFF she does pass
    im not sayin she will

  • Sandra D
    16 years ago

    How did you find out?

  • lacrose
    16 years ago

    What a difficult situation you have, bettr things to do is to tell your friend right now before he/she knows that you also knew about that matter. At that moment if your friend knw taht you knew about the situation of his/her parent,your friend will think taht your not a true friend...right? better to tell your friend.. Then after, you support, comfort and help your friend...

  • LiNa
    16 years ago

    I'm afraid to fall in love with the same guy again and i'm afraid that i can't let him go, even if i wanted to, i just can't

  • Sarah
    16 years ago

    Hope. There is always Hope, remember that.

  • Heba
    16 years ago

    Okay. i just need you to be beside her to help her in getting over this sad moments and always try to encourage and persuade her because it is not the end of the world.

  • David ODonnell
    16 years ago

    The best advice you could give to your friend right now is to come to terms and make what time is left with thier mother special enough to keep her at peace and ready her to move on.

  • Katlette
    16 years ago

    Tell your friend. She has a right to know. It is her mom. Then do what you can to make her happy. Do something you guy will look back on and be happy you did it foe her.

  • Katlette
    16 years ago

    ^ so true. Talk to her mother and ask her to tell her. But what is the mother will not allow it. What is her daughter supposed to think when she passes away?

  • your love is mine
    16 years ago

    If you really care you should tell your friend and help her go though this.

  • MissMeg
    16 years ago

    Tell your friend and be there for her because she sure is going to need someone

  • HumanAngel
    16 years ago

    Why doesn't your friend know?

    Just talk to her mum and explain that although she is scared because of the cancer, it can only bring her and her daughter closer together.

  • Shellaine shelli
    16 years ago

    My mom had a long battle with both chrones disease and cancer, I honestly would not have coped if I had of found out when it was to late.
    I know exactly how hard it is but
    your friends mom has to tell her because the fact is
    that although people can live for a really long time after getting treatment, there is no way that you can hide it
    when it gets to its worst.
    and although we always try to think of only the positive things we do also have to think of what will happen if the situation does take a turn for the worst.
    You are a really great friend to care so much
    and should talk to your friends mother.
    I know that it is extremely hard and people don't understand until they are in the situation
    but I can assure you it will be one of the hardest things ever but as long as you are there and give your friend as much support as you possibly can.
    Do as much as you can with her and spend time with her inorder to try keep her mind off it for a while!!
    Cancer does not mean death,
    there are many people who have survived it
    and are still going strong for many years after!!