I don't know what to do anymore

  • Amber
    16 years ago

    Well.. see the thing is that i have been in love with this guy for like.. almost two years. but he treats me like crap. he's my best friend too though. we have been through alot together.. and now.. im starting to have feelings for someone else.. and i don't know what to do. because i have to let him go.. if i do that.. i just don't know how you are supposed to tell when it's time to let go. and move on... please help.
    xo.
    amber dawn dye

  • Daisy Wells
    16 years ago

    I know how you feel i went through the same thing, ultimatley only you can decide if it's the right time to move on. If you still love the guy your with it would be unfair to start another relationship with someone else. however if your boyfriend treats you bad do you really want to continue with the relationship? in my opinion i think you should break up with your bf and be on your own for a while before you get invovled with anyone else, because you might end up going from one bad relationship to potentially another. when you feel you are over this relationship then start dating again. some time on your own will do you good. just because you break up with a partner though does not mean you always have to loose their friendship. good luck hope all works out xxx

  • TwistedAngel xx
    16 years ago

    Yeah daisy had some good points there
    just have a long hard think about it
    and ultimately pick one
    or none and have a break
    coz no one likes being stringed along
    gd luck
    xx

  • Teria
    16 years ago

    It all takes time, but I think if you're having to ask the question " is it time to move on? " then, most likely it is. . .

    But, I wouldn't go getting in another relationship so soon.

  • DOLLFACE
    16 years ago

    Ok i went through this before and really it start off all lovery dovey the first year then arguing then you just dont know what to do any more the next year you fall for someone else and then your more confused i can tell you what i did i feel for some other guy after two years and he who im currently with i left my x telling him i wanted to be treated right ......he saw what he was missing and really honestly he changed ,hes different now but i ended up staying with that other guy at times i mised him so much it just destined to happen i was with him forever and he was my bestfriend so you have to leave him so he can change but at least more than two weeks and you can go with the one your falling for but dont live in regret thou because i did but later got over it

  • Monica AKA Mika
    16 years ago

    I think you already know...or you wouldnt be posting this... ;)

  • Alex Marlatt
    16 years ago

    Same boat. Almost exactly. I dated a friend for nine months. I can honestly say she was my first love. I love her still, it's been a month and a half since we broke up. It's hard I know. Now I'm deciding whether I want to try going out with this other girl I like or staying vigilant even though I know the first girl, my best friend, will probably never give me a second chance.