Karma bit me in the ass...help!

I cheated on my boyfriend and didnt know he found out and then he cheated on me not just kissing kinda chaeating we slept with other people i dont want him to even kiss me im so grossed out we want to forget everything and start over is it possible???

First, why did you cheat on him in the first place, and second cheating on you was wrong for him to do as well because two wrongs do not ever make a right?

You need to, both, have respect for each other, yourselves, and your relationship, before you ever even think about getting back together with each other.

We want to make things work out we really do he did it to get me back i know that pretty low and he knows it to i cheated on him in the first place because i thought i was in love with my x i almost had a baby with that guy but lost it he was even my first i was so caught up with my thought about him that i cheated on someone i love we are both very sorry about what we did but the question is can it work?

I'd say not to bother. You're both young, and a little immature (please don't take that personally). Basically, there is no trust in this relationship whatsoever, and it's really not worth fighting for something like that. You were both wrong, but neither of you will ever be able to feel secure with each other any more.

You'll meet tons of other guys, and you will find someone who you are a little more compatible with. Learn from your mistake, and don't let this happen with the next one.

Yes, it can work but to make it a trusting relationship you have to put all the effort into forgiving yourselves before you can fully forgive each other.

Wow, I want to slap you. You cheated, so he cheated on you. And you're acting repulsed? Thats terrible. He probably only did it because you hurt him.

Personal opinion: stop dating for a little bit.

Take care :P

No one can tell you if it is going to work because only the two of you can answer that. You can either get past what both of you have done or you can't, hopefully you use this experience to become a little wiser.

Yeah Beautiful chaos is right.
either it will if you put in the effort or it wont because its hard for ppl to change.
but gd luck whatever u do neways

xx

FOR THE UPDATE: i have always cheated on my boyfriends because i was cheated on and caught the habit i know its imature but this guy means so much to me and i can honestly say i made a mistake but it took this one guy to open my eyes to realize how bad it hurt to be cheated on it made me be disgusted with myself im the only one who is to blame in this situation but wheather any of you believe it or not i love this guy to death hes my everything im only human and we all make mistakes but weve droped what happend and realized that if we want this to work we have to trust ourselves first before we can trust each other so now we are working back up...thanks for all the help even thou most didnt really apply but everything was taken into consideration...♥!

You guys need to really think about what you are doing to yourselves and eachother. Its messed up that all you can think about is getting back at eachother. Why cant you just try and talk about it? Its too late now. i really dont believe that this relationship has a chance anymore because trust and honesty are the two bases of a relationship and you dont have either one...so i say move on, its better for the both of you.

Three words. get over it.

IMPORTANT:...... i came to ask for advice about my problem not to be critized by other ppl who make mistakes half the ppl who wrote to me just tryed to cut me down ...if i was your close friend instead of a stranger youd think twice about the thing SOME of you have said i figured out what i want to do and sorry but truth is there is a lot of you out there with so much anger that you have nothing better but put ppl down sorry but thats also imature(not saying what i did was not imature)..if you want to give advice do it but a least read all the situation right before you write anything

Note if you don't like the answers you receive, don't post in an open forum, there is a difference between putting you down and being honest. You made stupid mistakes, that is just what they are YOURS, own it, feeling sorry for yourself won't take you far.

Yea thats true i was just upset its cool things pass thanks for the advice

Hahahahaha thats what your ass gets

*cries* what is wrong with you? Cheated on ALL of them. :( You're a sad sad sad story.