i want to tell him...need advice

  • kami
    19 years ago

    i love my boyfriend but he doesnt know....i want to tell him but ive been waiting for him to tell me first....but all my friends say he is probably waiting for me to say it first....i just want him to know even if he doesnt feel the same...but he is also in jail and the only wayi could tell him is over the phone .....should i wait a month and a half till he gets out and tell him in person or should i jsut say now and if i did it over the phone...how can i make it mean something... how could i tell him

  • ~*^*~ longing to belong ~*^*~
    19 years ago

    can he recieve post? Because you could send him some sort of 'miss you' message or un-valentine message and then write a note/letter to him in there.

    Hope this makes more sense to you than me! x

  • ~*^*~ longing to belong ~*^*~
    19 years ago

    oh and how long have you been going out with him? If it's been quite a long time then I think you shouod tell him sooner rather than later, but if it hasn't been that long then wait until he gets out.

    Just my opinion x

  • kami
    19 years ago

    its been 2 months...so i duno i would feel better doing when he gets out but im scared what if like something happens and i never get to tell him i want him to know

  • ~*^*~ longing to belong ~*^*~
    19 years ago

    well girl I guess it's up to you, i think you should do what you feel most comfotable doing. take care x

  • Heathergirl
    19 years ago

    You should call him girl, you would make his day!!

  • kami
    19 years ago

    i talk to him on the phone all the time...but my house doesnt except collect calls so his mom has to three way i dont want her to hear...and i jsut scared to tell him but i will soon tell him thanks guys

  • Avellana
    19 years ago

    ummm, depends on the length of time u been with him, it could help him, being alone and everythin.

    Good Luck!