Problem. [[A slightly explicity topic, not sure if it will be de

Well, I know its normal, but I found porn on my boyfriend's computer.

My boyfriend and I are commited and do plan to marry in the future. He loves me very much, and I love him very much also. I gave him my virginity, and he wears a ring I gave him on a chain to represent it. The ring was important to me, as is he.

I know it's COMPLETELY normal for a guy to look at and masturbate to porn, and it does not mean he doesn't love me.

I just need to know how to get past this because it was slightly traumatising.

I'm not sure if this will get deleted, but I'll understand if it does. I just need help.

Its just hard to get over is all.
And I was just giving you some insight as to how our relationship is.

I think you should talk to him about it first.
I wouldn't like it if my boyfriend was looking at porn.

Thats what happened with mine.
Just dont think too much about it.
Its not a problem. Unless he starts wanting porn instead of you. or looking at it while your with him.
but dont fret about it
he loves you

xx

Coming from a guys point of view

if you do talk to him about it then make sure you make it clear your not presecuting him over it. and then get him to do the talking and not you , he might open up and you will be closer than ever good luck XxxX jamez :)

You're over reacting and shouldn't care if he looks at some naked girls on the internet. At least he's at home masterbating instead of out sleeping with other girls.

I'm lucky that marcus doesn't feel the need for porn, we both class it as a mild form of cheating because if you're with someone, why would you feel the need to look at other naked women and get out over them when you have the real thing at home. As he says !"why look at burgers when you can have a steak?" lol
I recommend you talk to him about it, he may not even realise it bothers you.