Lil Problem.. well, big one...

I'm having a long distance relationship with a girl named Abbie and.. I'm finding it really really hard because i dont get to see her very often because she lives 3 hours away and everywhere i go (mainly in college) theres people holding hands and kissing everywhere i go.. and i dont know if it's true but i have a few freinds near where she lives and they watch her now and then and they say they see her talking to LOTS of other boys and i spend a lot of time and money going up to see her taking her out to places and EVERYTHING she wants really! tbh i spoil her and i think shes going round her college with other boys behind me ... and on valentines day i went to visit her as a suprise for valentines day when i got to her place her mum said she was at the ice ring and when i got their i saw her at the back of the ice ring sat down with another boy then she kissed him and i just walked off and said nothing of it ...

i really dont know what to do, I'm in a lot of pain atm ..........

Dump her, she isn't taking your long distance relationship seriously because she's obviously not being faithful. I think she needs something closer that she can see everyday, but i'm not excusing the fact she kissed somebody behind your back. tell her you know what she did, and you can't be with somebody who hurts you. (you obviously can't, right?)

Yeah i guess your right..
my friends just say text her but i think i should phone her.. im not sure and the fact that where i live atm and in collage girls are only after the good looking and the popular if you get me ...
i mean I'm alright looking but sometimes i just look at a girl talking to a group of boys or even just one i think to myself i have no chance ...

So what happened?
PM me if u want coz i might not check this thread again
she sounds bad, you deserve better.

xx

Like full on snog....... and im not to sure if i should tell her yet.. uhh why does love have to be so complicated!! I really should have walked up to her or something instead of walking away ......

I'm sorry, but she's been cheating, and she's going to keep on doing that, just because she thinks she can get away with it. she's a player, and you shouldn't put up with things like that.