Help Im so confused

I was going out with this guy he didnt want many people to know about us......... my brother found out and told everyone well on sunday night he txted me and told me it was over and his xcuse was becuz my brother was a fuckhead

I am very angry......... at the fact that it was low and pathectic but my feelings for him are still very very strong I tell people that I wouldnt care if he jumped off a cliff but deep down it hurts me knowing I can say them things

He hurt me so much yet I still love him I want to be angry and I want to stop crying but it hurts so much why????

You care about him so of course it hurts, but why the need to hide you away? I get the not wanting people in your business and such, but not wanting people to know at all? That seems fishy.

Not letting the world know -- what's the point of getting together at all? That's like being "Secret Friends" -- you're not really friends at all. I can understand not wanting MANY people to know -- but dumping you because everyone found out is just ... that's despicable. You feel for him -- it's gonna hurt, but keep in mind that "real" guys don't do that. He's a douche and you just need to allow the feeligns time to pass .

I agree, be rid of the douche.

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If someone does not want to anyone to know you are together, I feel he must have a reason for doing it..

Like...why we don't introduce guy we met yesterday to out parents? Because we are UNSURE if the relationship last..

Why we don't introduce our new love to friends.. Maybe we feel they would like him/her..

Anywayz, my point was: he does not deserve your love, if he wanted to keep you in the closet.

Ok something that is known to many girls we always fall for the bad guys its just a natural thing a bad habbit we have at times that why you care he made you feel amazing like no one else before so everything he sis to you waas just ignored it happens but soon the pain will end just think positive

You love him so much that it hurts.. thats just it