JAZMIN
16 years ago
Ive been with my current bf for 2 months and we were doing great until about a week ago when he started acting weird with me...he has been having alot of problems at home and i understand him... but i want to be there for him but he pushes me away... then finally two night ago we were talking and he was telling me that he has all these problems and he doesnt know what to do... |
Normal is the Watchword
16 years ago
Listen to your favorite songs, get a job or if your working get extra hours if you can or work harder, go for some long walks or go to a shelter and see if you can help work with the pets, read the book you wanted to but never got around to, or go to the movies and laugh harder than you ever have. Learn to fall in love with yourself while you give him his space. |
Jaime
16 years ago
Sometimes people need space when they are having problems. You need to accept that, and stop taking it so personally that he doesn't want to call you when he's upset. You are only adding relationship issues to his list of problems, and that's the last way you're going to get him to come talk to you. |
JAZMIN
16 years ago
Yea...that is what alot of people have been telling me...and i am giving him space.... he hasnt called me the last 3 days and has only text me twice... and he did it and not me... so i guess i am giving his space... how do i give him space but let him know that i am still for here for him? |
BrokenREALiTy
16 years ago
You do exactly what you're doing right now, only if he texts you, it's good to respond -- but without the overworrying and all that clingy stuff. You were there for him; he shoved you away, and giving him space right now is letting him know you're being there for him. So chill and stop overthinking things. |
JAZMIN
16 years ago
Sometimes i think...what did i do wrong? but i dont think i did... i was always there for him and i did nothing but love him.... but knowing how i am...i know that i will fall apart..and im just thinking... what am i going to do if we fall apart... i just feel like my heart is breaking into a million pieces once more.... i hate this.... :( |