Alone?

I want to know, well I do know people have felt alone I have and I know others who have. I just want people to realize that "we" are never really ALONE. I think that sometimes we chose to be alone, I know I do. Sometimes we push people away who get to close, so they dont see behind the "mask" we might have on. I just think that we all have at least one person who can get behind the mask and make it worth taking off.

I bet that there are people who really are alone I wish I could say that there isn't. If your feeling alone right now your wrong because I know that there are a lot of people on here willing to help anyone out.

Im one of them, ALWAYS HERE!!

4: Andie
I obvouisly dont know your situation but if your friends are treating you poorly than are they really your fiends? I dont trust many people because of some things other "friends" have done, but I know that I should always give someone a chance to show me who they really are. And this place is full of people who wont push you away.
"A friendship worth ending never began."

It's nice advice to say to someone. sometimes when I'm feeling really down I think about this. telling myself someone will care about the problems that happened and can cheer things up.
I just have to find her somehow.. >_>

That is so true. the original post i mean.
sometimes i do get really upset or sad or alone or watever but i do have ppl. sometimes it just clouds ur vision is all.
thanks thats a nice thing to say
and a gd reminder ^_^
xx

I dont push them away,.
there always here but i just dont feel,.

[not enough effort for making me happy]i think,

he3

I've felt alont before and I would let anyone behiind my mask... no one had ever been able to take that off until I met my current bf... he helped me lower that shield...that mask...that I was always holding up... he knows me so well... and everyone feels alone at some point but I think there is always someone out there who prevent you from feeling being alone...

Heck yes! There is always someone who can ether see behind your mask or help you remove it. Who knows they just might be waring that same mask, but all we can do is be kind and maybe they show us who's on the other side.

It just seems like the second you start to open up to some one, the more power they have over you. People are only ever going to hurt you. It just seems like they never really care, they never have time to listen. Even when they say they care, they really have some where else to be, other things to do. Why even tell people anything?

That is exactly how I feel. I had this friend that could come to me anytime for anything ever. But the one moment I needed to talk to him about something he tells me "I cant deal with this I have my own problems" That's kinda when it all started. But I did find someone who I can trust and go to for anything. You should tell some people things to get it off you chest and to see if that person is really who they say they are?

I've felt alone a lot especially when I am alone in bed or when this world or the room I'm in seems too big, but the loneliness I feel isn't the loneliness of being phisically alone, it's the emotional, metal feeling of being alone... that feeling you get where you feel a deep nothingness inside

I've felt alone a lot especially when I am alone in bed or when this world or the room I'm in seems too big, but the loneliness I feel isn't the loneliness of being phisically alone, it's the emotional, metal feeling of being alone... that feeling you get where you feel a deep nothingness inside

I always feel alone even though there are people close. They don't even know that i'm putting on an act and none of them want to find out. Also i can't tell them because well i just can't. I hate how i feel, not even knowing what's going on in my own head. I always feel down i don't fit in my 'friends' don't treat me right and god im confused. I'm not looking for sympathy but i just need to put it somewhwere as i can't tell anyone. This is really quite brief but im glad i found somewhere to put it.

I dont know why but ive always felt alone always felt different in the wrong sort of way. I mean i shouldnt really be complaining i have a nice life, but i can stand in the croud of friends i have and feel so left out like i dont belong there... Ive never really understood it, maybe its because when i was younger i lost alot of my friends because teachers and parents got involved because i have a disability and i always ended up alone. Ive never really looked for sypathy from my friends, i think its better not to worrie them with some thing i dont even know how to explain.

Luv im sorry and i swear not in any contradicting or mean way am i saying this but i really disagree

i spent my whole life saying that sentence...my whole life mind you...but in the end its not about someone being there when you need them the most but about them being there even when you dont...those kind of people just dont seem to exist...

they arent real in a matter of speaking. i dont mean to sound emo or depressing...just realisitic...humanity is bred off selfishness therefore there are people who can be alone...they *stay* alone by choice but even surrounded by "caring people" who "listen" the only time someone will let go of their lonliness is when they find that one .weird. person who *understands*

...im not sure if that makes sense...

^i think that makes total sense, ur lucky if u find that one special person who can see through your mask an cheer you when you're sad, but even luckier if you find a person who will lift your spirits and make u feel better even when you didn't know you felt bad... if that makes sense, is that sorta what ur trying to say???

Yes'm i think it is : )

You know you have a great friend when you can sit together not saying a word, then walk away feeling like you just had the greatest conversation ever. :)

Haha post-a-quote that was ^_^

Yeah, seriously, i'd make that one of ur quotes =)

The problem is that ur "friends" never are there when u need them the most and when all u want is a shoulder to cry on, they run and hide, but when they need a shoulder to cry on, there you are. You always expect more from a friendship then they do.

I hate that... It's like, if you aren't the perfect 'normal' person you can't do this or that. But who are they to tell us what we can and can't do. The problem is, they control everything and people like us who want to be ourselves have no say

I know I'm not alone. But somehow I still think I am, or think I want to be.

I know I'm not alone. But somehow I still think I am, or think I want to be.

I don't think we are ever really alone we just feel it. And sometimes we do want to be alone because we want to be ourselves and not habe to be what someone else wants us to be/do/whatever. But I think we are always alone in a sense, because no one is exactly like us. They will never understand our thought process and what we are going through.

I've got the same problem..I always listen but no one seems to want to listen to me..which really makes me feel lonely.

I sometimes feel alone but i know that there are still ppl out ther like my frends who wanna help even though i do push them away.....

ppl dont act like u care unless u act sad or watever

Sometimes u are just resigned to being alone, some times noone can do do anything

Ya i think alot of people feel alone
i do, often
thats one main reason why i cut
it helps ease the loneliness

Sometimes i really feel alone because i think that people are trying to avoid me and to ineract with me, so i just keep getting away from them feeling that i am not good enough to be freindly and social.

True...i push people away when they get too close to be alone and when Iam feeling better my mind instantly starts recalling those who will give anything to be with me and then I get embarrassed that I was fool enuf to think Iam alone!

Im so envious of you because you have said basically what I have been trying to realise for years. I to push people away in fear of them getting to close but at the same time I need closure and acceptance for who I am.. I am just so complicated sometimes

Luke:
You are so right by saying that. I too have never gotten it across to people that there is someone out there for everyone. You just have to let yourself let thm in. It's kind of hard to explain. But we all have someone. I'm a laturally quiet person. Yes, there is also stuff wrong with me. But it's not bad. I tend to push people away. Usually thoses who I am closest to. There are my true best friends though. My best friends who is my sister (at heart), My ex who is my best friend, and my older sister who is also my best friend. These three never ever let my push them away. No matter how much it hurt them.