How Many Chances..? =/

Ok I'm just gonna come right out with it. How many chances do you think a guy deserves? I've been with my guy for about a year and I'm starting to worry that I'm giving him wayy too many chances then he deserves. I think that I love him..like, LOVE him. But I see something in him no one else does. He cares about me and would do anything in his power to make sure no one hurts me. But sometimes..HE'S the one hurting me. Not physically but like..you know. He does some things that alot of girls would've walked away just like that. But I can never bring myself to do it..Sometimes I wonder if maybe he doesn't realize it hurts me as bad as it does. Idk it's sorta hard to explain with out giving credit to the amazing guy he can be. So tell me..do you think I'm just someone who let's her bf walk all over her or do u think I give him chances b/c I see that other part in him and love him, so I see past his mistakes?

PS. When I say 'past his mistakes' I mean that I do get upset and it hurts but I forgive him after sharing my piece and explaining why I feel the way I do. I guess I'm trying to say is that I love him inspite of that. Please be truthful!!

Thankss
Xx..tabithalynn..xX

I agree

I think maybe you have given him enough chances already otherwise maybe you wouldnt have written the post?
maybe i dunno but do what u think is right

xoxo

It depends on what he's doing, and only you can be the judge on whether or not he deserves more chances. If it's nothing serious, than I would let it go. Not all guys think before they speak, and they usually don't mean to hurt when they do. *Talk to him.* That's the only way to fix anything.

Whoa..thankks so much those all helped alot^ =]. Ok well..I've thought about it some more and to answer a question left up there somewhere..Its not so much haunting me in the LONG RUN..but it does for a while. Eventually I move on or forget of w.e but thank u guys so much you all helped!

So i just got out of this one relationship and from my experiences i always gave him more and more chances because he claimed he would change and i always melted and gave in for him, but then i realized it would just got straight back to the way things were. give them a chance if they will really change. if not. i dont think u should put up with it.

Well how many chances are you willing to give him?
No one deserves to be hurt physically or psychologically (sp?) but its all up to you...

I think u should tell him how u feel and and i do undertand that u just cant let go of him but sumtimes its okay to let go. cuz u noe wat they say.. u dont noe how much u care for sum1 until their gone.. so yeahh

Hope this will help .

Wow, that last one^^ definitley had some good points and for the record I do think about the highschool stuff and I try not to look that far ahead..I just do like a couple weeks at a time depending on how we're doing. I think that we fight most when we're seperated like school breaks or something but the time apart does us good. In my opinion..lol but. anyways thanx for that last one^^!

I was stuck in the same situation..
try saying you will leave him if he doesn't stop but if that doesn't work the only thing you can do is walk away.
I had to because he just got worse as time went by he may be inlove with you too he could just be use to treating girls like that so you have to put a stop to it now.