I like this guy

I like this guy..and i like him a lot..he's a bad boy, but that's what attracts me more...and u know i'm like a really good girl....We talk and like i think he respects that i'm a good girl, he doesn't want me to change, he's told me before.
like i like him a lot, and i think he likes me too...
and i have a feelng the reson he doesn't want to get with me is because he doesn't want to have a bad influence on me..he is so sweet!.

omg....y is it so conplicated..what shuld i do?...ask him out?.or wat?

If you have to ask what to do think about why you are askig in the first place. Either you're painfully shy of asking a by out or you're not even sure about him in the first place.

I think i'm shy when it comes to that.......i mean i'm usually really outgoing, and loud and fun, but i get scared and nervous.....i really want to go out with him but idk if i shuld just ask..i'm scared.it's hard!

Well what I learned was: You need to put yourself in aposition where you can not turn out of, thereby you are making sure you ask a boy out. Stasrt a conversation, "Hey there's this really good movie with (so and so) in it, looks (whatever word)" At this point you can not turn back, "What do you think, might be interested in seeing it with me?"

That's a good idea..we hung out a little while ago...and it was fun, and everytime we pass by in the halls we say hey and stuff...and i think he realy does like me,, but what if i ask him out and he say no and like i get rejected?...i think that's what i'm mostly afraid of..rejection

Then you tried and with the situatioN I said you could always pull the, "Ok then I'll ask another FRIEND" if it doesn't turn out the way you thought it would.

Thanks for the advice....u know i'll try showing him, but sometimes i.well i just don't want to be laughed at...urg..y is this so complicated?

Thanks.....

Ter....i wna t to be with him.but idk if he really likes me.......tear

It's only complicated if you or he makes it complicated. You're overthinking it. Rejection will always be a risk when it comes to liking someone and letting them know, but it's a risk you have to take. If you're thinking so much about it and wondering if he actuallyl ikes you, you won't know unless you ask him, so go ask him to hang out. He won't laugh in your face, and if he does -- he's a douche and it'll hurt, but then you'll know whether he was worth all this thinkign.

Wow..maybe i am overthinking it....idk.......it's hard to take a risk sometimes..i just don't know

Tell him you like him!

Yeah?....u think i should?..its so hard tho..what if he like laughs..i don't wanna get hurt!

If he laughs then he obvoiusly wasnt going to be a nice boyfriend.
just take the opportunity now coz someone else might take him and then you will always be wondering.
GOOD LUCK!

xx

This is totally off topic and totally random but that emokisses chick is pretty cute hahaha i maybe in love but dang beautiful... and um yeah if you really like that guy then tell him thats all you really can do...

Bad boys do have a certain attraction to them, eh? As long as you are okay with whatever it is that makes him a 'bad boy', then just continue to talk and flirt with him. Don't push anything, just see where it goes.

Also, keep in mind- every girl wants to find a bad boy she can "fix", or tame. It won't work. So if that's why you find yourself attracted to him, then don't continue with this.

Haha..i guess bob is right when he says that good girls aren't really good girls...idk

but thanks for your advice everyone...................

OMG!!!!..he totaly smiled at me today!..and then after school he cought my attention and waved!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!..........omg!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hahaha someone is getting alittle frisky hahaha.... but thats a good sign i only wave at girls i like unless they wave first then i will wave back lol but thats just me idk this guy but i think u should tell him u like him

Haha......that's a good sign?...really?...omg.. its just so hard to express my feelings towards hi to him........if that made any sence at all........................gosh....this is complicated

The more you say it's complicated, the more complicated you're going to make it seem. Young girls tend to exaggerate and freak out over the smallest things -- I know I do at times -- and that's what you're doing now. If you want to express your feelings for him, EXPRESS THEM. Someone tells you it's a good sign, don't question it. If you're going to go doubting something before you find out the plain and simple truth -- you'll jinx the outcome.

I'm a total dork.................

Haha.......dorks rule...........and i think i'm the biggest dork alive!!!!....lol

Yes.they will.one day!

Well....i think i might tell him that i like him.but.........idk....................................

I think you should just take the risk and tell the guy you like him what have you got to loose, rejection is a part of life if he does that put it down to experience if he does reject you you have a chance to move on. this guy probably likes u to and is thinking exactly the same you are. the longer you leave it the harder it will be to do it. In my experience guys like a girl to make the first move, if you don't you will regret it. stop wasting time thinking about him honey when you could be with him instead. good luck xx

Ashleigh described exactly him!!
he does drugs sometimes-which i totaly disaprove...
and tlks back to teachers,
and is actually on probation!!!
i hope that i can help him overcome that!!
***aLy***

If ur not sure he likes u bac u shud tell him how u feel and if he feels the same way u guys shud give it a try cuz u never noe what'll happen .

True....hmm...