I'm kind of in love with my "best guy friend"

Hey. I've known this guy for about 3 years and we are so close! I really like him. And like an idiot, I told him. Now our relationship is still close, but not as close as before. Any advice or stories like mine?

~Kail

Yeah. He didn't really give me a definite answer. Never really said yes or no. I don't know. If he's happy being friends, then I guess I could be too. ^.^

I am kind of in love with my best guy friend too. but i am keeping my mouth shut...let me know what happens.

Hmmm lets just say been there done that. I suggest that you guys should not go right out.... but... ( this is if he does like you ) kinda act like you are, so you get a feel for it.... and if things dont work out then you are not hurt nearly as bad.

It wasnt a bad thing that you told him..... if anything he should feel honored because its a great burden to put on someone sometimes. If he pulls away from you because of what you told him then done waste your time on him.

I think he's just comfortable with being my friend. :D And that's fine with me. He really wants me to come to one ofhis tennis games. He says I could sit with his mom (who I've never met). Maybe he wants me to meet his family? That's a good sign, right? :P

Yeah, I'm going to a game on Thursday. My first tennis game... lol He's been asking me to come to a game for a year and a half and I never have. And I'll be cheering on Andy! *smiles* Will update y'all later.

Hey yea....

i'v actually been going thru that right now

it's really confusing, i know, and it's scary

but if your situation turns out half as well as mine did, ... well, let's just say i'll be VERY happy for you!!

so i hope for the best!!

xoxo
~paige

Ah, yay for you Paige! I hope it does work out for us. Thanks for your story. =)

Ok, so I just came back from the tennis game. And he won his singles match!! He won 8-1 and when he came off the court, he looked at me and said "Kail, you should come to my games more often. I think I play better when I'm trying to impress you." And nobody could wipe the smile off my face.

I gots a story lol.

Alright I knew this guy back when I was in the 8th grade and he liked me but I never really liked him like that back then. Well when I got to the 10th grade I liked him a lot and I decided to date him, but after awhile he told me that he felt like I felt sorry for him thats why I went out with him and I got mad and told him well maybe we shouldn't be together then and it hurt me when I did that. After about six months I was trying to get back with him and I really liked him I felt like I was in love with him, but the thing was I had this friend that turned around and asked him out. It hurt me for a long time and we hated each other because the guy I wanted I couldn't get and she got him. Well things happen in my life I moved away to Florida and I ended up moving back to Georgia after awhile. And Justin and I are still friends to this day and Brittany and I we got over our differences and we're friends again. It was a huge mess, but the thing is I'm engaged to be married now to a guy name Robert and I love him. And to me I think my friendship with Justin is more important than him and I dating for awhile breaking up and we start hating each other. I could always go to him for problems and we're still best friends to this day, I don't talk to him as much anymore cause I don't see him anymore. But he knows if he ever needs me I'm always here. But all I can say is this: If its meant to be it will become, if its not meant to be then it will never happen and if it does happen it may not last. But never ever let a relationship come between you and him, because true friends don't happen very often. You will have your friends and you will have your true friends...Friends will stab you in your back true friends will always pull the knife out of your back. So pick if you want a relationship and make sure it won't ruin your friendship if it does don't go for the relationship. Stay friends, you'll find that one speical person it will just take a lot of time Trust me on that.

~Kala Dearing~