Where did the feelings go?

He was once my everything...We were so happy.
He was the first person I could open up to && not have to worry about him breaking me...
Times passed by..We've been dating for awhile now...
He has been treating me like im nothing to him...
I feel so hated..So unimportant.
Ive tried to walk away 3 times && each time he swears he will change && each time I believe it...
This is the 4th time && Im done..
I just dont understand how the one person I Loved soo much...makes me hate him more && more everyday.....I just dont know how or why....
We talked about marriage && kids...We had our life planned...
Now that future with him feels so impossable..
Where did the Love go?

I may be young but I do know this. I'm gonna give you some advice and take it whatever way you would like. If you want to see a rainbow you have to walk through the rain, and if you want true love you have to walk through the pain. Give it time and see where it goes. Everything that happens is meant for a reason. Either he is being a jerk and he will stop sooner or later and you 2 will be closer then ever before. Or he will keep being a jerk and that will just point you to someone even better. I wish you luck.

Jordan

Hmm. Jordan does have a point, but I have to say... a true love might bring pain to you, but I don't think they should ever, ever make you feel hated. That's a big warning sign to me. I'd say... as much as you might want to listen to cliches and wait it out... you've had a reason every one of those three times you've walked away. Listen to yourself - see if you know in your heart that love shouldn't make you feel insignificant this way. Once you'd made a decision, you'll have to find the resolve to follow it through.

This is coming from someone who's been there. I was with a guy for over 3 years, and I eventually knew deep down that it wasn't right. There were many times where I tried to walk away, but I always thought "he can change - I can change him," etc. Yeah, love takes work, but some things just aren't meant to be. One word, though - it sucks at first, but it gets easier, and soon enough I was looking back on this significant relationship wondering why I stayed so long. Good lluck, and peace.

Thanks you guys so much!
I want to make it work...&& Jordan I really think Im going to try..I mean I love him && being without him at this point is just too hard....
Thanks for the advice..I plan to use them both..I just need things to go right!

Omg I have had the same problems your facing..and yeah I'm younger then most to be having them but if you love him and he loves you it all works out and you'll be way closer like Jordan said. Same exact thing happened to me and now me and my bf are inseperable! [sp?] Hope it all goes well..good luck!

There is no reason for you too feel hated, or unimportant, you are your own person...
and you shouldnt depend on someone to want you, because in the end we are all independent on our selves...

you shouldnt give him more chances, if he wanted to change, he would have changed the 1st time...

well, you should try not to hate him, and dont love him, just be normal and move on with your life... no one is worth your anger or pain...

the love didnt go anywhere, you just didnt find it yet, his love was an illusion, and you believed that it would last, now the illusion is gone, and the truth is out, so you should move on and im sure there is that one person out there waiting for you, and then you would have a family with that person...

take care and keep your head up all the time,
never let anyone bring you down, with there words, you are much better than that