Just friends? blah. :(

Ok well i've been dating this guy for awhile now. and i really care about him to the point where he is the first thing i think about in the morning and the last thing i think about before i go to bed.

everything is usually fine between us. when we are together nothing in the world is better.

we only have one problem and her name is brandi.

lets just say she likes him a little too much for me to consider her "Just his friend" she told him she liked him and asked him if he would break up with me for her birthday cause he would be the best present of all.

now he says they are just friends. and that i shouldnt be jealous cause thats all they are. but we broke up over her once. and basically i cant like not be jealous cause she texts him and talks to him more than i do. and she has this nickname for him "billyboo".

if i said this didnt bother me then i would be totally lieing.

i just care about him so much and i'm not sure what to do. however i am like ten seconds away from smashing her face into a wall. but i know that wouldnt be a good idea.

i've talked to him about it but he just shrugs it off and says they are friends and i need to get over it...

blah... please help. i'm going crazy and idk what to do :(

It seems like your boyfriend is doing all he can to stop her advances. I think all you need to do is just trust him. If you don't trust him, or think that there is a possiblity that he may leave you for her, you will need to talk to him.

I think if i was in your position, i would simply ask her (POLITELY) to back off. And if she doesn't do that..um...there isnt a whole lot you can do. haha.

I think just take a chill pill.

No he isnt stoping her advances. he just kinda lets her do whatever and he sticks up for her more than me.

and i have asked her to stop but she pretty much just laughed at me. :(

Have you told your boyfriend about this?
He is YOUR boyfriend -- he's not supposed to just shrug it off like it's nothing because you're feelings are something. It sounds ilke you're insecure -- and he needs to reassure you, not tell you to get over it. If he's letting her do whatever she wants -- you really have to talk to him, and I mean TALK to him. If he doesn't lsiten and tells you to "Get over it" again, I wouldn't suggest staying with him, but if you stick it through longer, and it doesn't stop -- the picture is really starting to deteriorate -- question is, do you want to be there until it finally falls apart?

++. Think your relationship through thoroughly. Are you happy right now? Are you just overreacting, or is there really something to worry about? Things like that before you do anything final.

Just laugh back at her and say I got him and you dont.

xx

They have a point..... hes with you not her. If he liked her and thought she was better, trust me she would be with her not you. He loves you for who you are and would not hurt you. ( hoping that thats all true ).

Have some faith in him thats the most important thing in a reltionship anyway

If she has been your demise once before and she is obviously still trying to interfere, your bf should want to tell her to get lost because she is crossing lines. If there was no interest there, i think her behaviour should be considered offensive to him because it is disrespectful to you. She may be part of the problem, but he is the other part. Check your bf before you potentially risk an assualt charge that probably would not be worth your time.