Help me help a 4 yr old

Ok i need alot of help my father lefted me when i was 10 yrs old and hes been in and out of my life ever since then and its reall hard because i was the first born and i was daddys lil girl he know has a 4 1/2 yr old daughter named keshia and he is doing the same thing to her and i dont want her to have to go through the same thing im going thru know

I don't think there's much you can do without interfering in somebody else's life, other than to talk to your dad about it and fist some sense into him.

You could let your dad know how he made you feel and tell him you see him doing the same thing to Keshia and then you can do your best to be there for her.

Just be there for her, let her cry on your shoulder when she needs it, talk to her bout your experience and let her tell you everything which happens to her and make her feel good bout herself and never let her blame herself fer everything

Ashleigh and Dark Secrets both have valid points
try them both and then let us know if things are still the same or not.
Good luck and be strong, you have been strong so far so dont back down.

^_^

xx

But see theres alot more to him hes a drunk and a women and child beater he has put my mom in the hospital so many times and has done some "stuff" to me im scared hes gonna do the same thing to my poor lil sister

Weve tryed that but every time he gets put in jail he manages to get out
noone knows the "stuff" hes done to me and i wanted to keep it that way because then it wouldnt put the hate there between my brother and sister and my father
i dont know what to do because i dont want my lil sister to go thru the samething i went/going thru

I know how that is...I have a brother and a sister they both live in Florida and I live in Georgia. My mother left me when I was about 5 or 6...Austin he's 11 going on 12April 4th and Marcita will be 9 Aug 3rd I turned 19 back in Feb 15. My mother has been in and out of my life too...I kept giving her chance after chance...Well finally I gave her another chance when I turned 18 and she fucked up again...So I left home. My mother abandon me and if it wasn't for my grandma I would be going from foster home to foster home...So my grandma took me in and raised me basicly... And I'm telling you its not easy to have your one and only parent to leave you and stuff. Well I found out this month about two wks ago that she walked out on my brother and sister. I could give a damn what she does to me, but those two little ones doesn't deserve what she put me through. I have a poem that I wrote about it called "Hush Little Ones" so if you want check it out sometime.

Kool ill def do that

Adopt her?

Im not 18 yet and if the courts let me i would but i dont think that they will cause the mother is my step sister and she will put up a fight
(yes i just said that the mother of my sister is my step sister wich means my real dad f**ked my step sister)

Help her...talk to him...tell him how u feel about all this..dont hide ur feelings..tell him the truth..thats sad..wow..but thats wat fatherz do...not all fatherz are there till the end...a mother is the one whos there till the day u die...

Yeah u should help her by talking with him.
just vent it out and stay a bit with her, if its possible?..