How do you Choose??

How can i choose between two guys that i really like and even though i picked one now the other one is all upset and says he has nothing to live 4 and that if he commits suicide that i should be blamed for it and i should feel guilty and that he cant believed i picked a arrogant person over him and all of this and i hate this bkuz if you kno my im always happy love to smile laugh and im jus a sweetheart to guys and i trust way too much and he told me that i was the one for him but all the guys that i have dated has said that and then i end up getting hurt or heartbroken and i have no clue wat to do i feel horrible and i jus wanna make the right desicsion and all of that but yeah i have no clue how to go bout this any ideas or suggestions it would help cause i kno i was up all last night cryin and now im at skool and err one is like askin wats wrong and i dont kno how to really tell them without sounding like a complete idiot.....Also i jus dont kno wat to think bout all of this i mean i really like the one that i didnt choose but i also like the one i did choose and they were both fighting but the mess up part about all of this is that some 13 yr old gurl was talkin to both of em and they both said they were dating me so she put them in a conversation together and they started fighting but i waasnt dating both of em and yeah plz i jus need help or advice or something cause this day is jus not going well for me i cant sleep i cant eat all i can do is think bout all of this i cant concentrate at skool which is where i am now omg this sucks

He's overreacitng, you don't want to be with him and he can't force you to want to be with him, if he's honestly playing with such childish words you should be glad you didn't choose him. build a wall, ignore him and say you're ready to be friends when he stops being so childish.

ps. nobody else is ever to blame when someone commits suicide; it is their choice.

I think that if your happy with the one that you are with right now, the other one shouldnt even matter right now. Dwelling on the other can mess up the relationship that your in. But anyways, I agree with ^^. You should just ignore him. He's just being childish with the situation. He may like you, but he doesnt like you enough to consider the fact that your happier with some1 else. He's just using the suicide comment to derail you, so you should just 4get about it being your fault...
Jus my opinion

Thanks guys i feel a lil better but still

Well let me see. I am going though something like this ... I meet this guy and he is really sweet and all and i like him a lot. He tells me the same but we both live really far away from each other and i told him that i didn't want to be with him from this fact.And he got all mad, and he keeps telling me he wants to kill himself because he can''t find anyone(girls) that like him were he lives and i keeps telling him don't kill yourself and he told me that the other day I was the reason he didn't kill himself...and i was like OMG ... but any way ..... .
With thats one guy ... you can't feel bad, and he needs to let go or wait for you..You need to know that you can't do anything about it, because other way someone is going to get there feels hurt. And that is a part of life and you have to get though it no matter what. So yea, just tell him to wait if he really likes you or to let go, because other way you is going to get hurt,and for this reason is; your kicking yourself right now about how he feels and if you dump the guy you are with your going to kick yourself even more.So you have to tell the guy that your not with to let you because your hurting yourself.

As far as I know if there were two guys there would always be 1 i liked more than the other
but you decide its ur life but u gotta live with ur decision
maybe be single for a while I dunno gd
luck
xx

Well jus to let you guys kno i did make a decision and that was andrew i love him and err thing like that plus he makes me happy its not like joshua didnt he was jus too obssive and all that stuff and he told me that all these ppl where lying when they really werent so yeah i have no clue

He will just have to get over it . and i think killin urself is dumb especilly bcuz of a person

How can i choose between two guys that i really like and even though i picked one now the other one is all upset and says he has nothing to live 4 and that if he commits suicide that i should be blamed for it and i should feel guilty and that he cant believed i picked a arrogant person over him

^^^^ well then!!!! thats dumb... and redictulous. I mean if hes that immature to even say that to you.... forget him thats stupid and VERY mean to even put on someone.... because now no matter what if anything happens to him your gonna feel guilt just because he said that...... even if YOU had nothing to do with it...

Forget him and go with the one you choosed, you choosed him for a reason and your heart told you too.... so follow your heart.... after all, your heart is wise enough to keep you alive...

WEll thank you guys for the support and your thoughts they really did help and you guys are so nice to take time to read wat i had to say and respond to it that means alot and i greatly apperciate it thnks so much

Good luck with the guy you chose
wish you all the best
xx

Thanks