How do i deal ?

I meet this guy over the summer after I got really hurt by this other guy.( the guy I am talking about , i will call him BOB). Well see, When i first meet BOB I was like wow, he is amazing, i mean he is everything i have looked for in a guy for so long, and the next day when i meet him in person he never looked at my chest on my eyes, and that was amazing for the fact every guy i have ever meet or liked when i am around them they only look at my chest and i hate it, but this guy wasn't anything like the other guys.
He was the guy that i wished i had for so long, and the scared the apples out of me.
well, as time went on I didn't know how to act or talk to him because I was so scared, and for the fact my disability came in to work(which is I have A.D.D first of all and i cant look or think of the one thing in frount of me for so long so I start to day-dream and i get stuck in my day-dream so how were I black out but is were i still wake up ,do work and everything...it's really wired) well I never told BOB because I didn't know what he would think. And At point i would start to talk to him and not even know it until weeks after.
And about a month ago he told me he only wanted to be friends and that killed me because i never felt this way for a guy .
I'm trying to get over BOB but it's really hard because I keep thinking how "perfect" he is and how respectful he is to me.And I love him for it .
So how do I get over him ? How do I only see him for a friend? (for the fact I find it hard in the first place because we were never "JUST FRIENDS" to start with) How do I deal with the fact he might like my friend and other people ?

It might take a while but eventually you will get over him. tell him you need to take time before you accept it, so you can't hang out until you're over him. not all things are "meant to be" or "fate", and if he thinks that way about you, you can't change his mind. You'll move on eventually.

OH i told him that be he was being stupid and pissed off at the time,and the fact that I haven't talked to him forever It kills me. I know I can't make him like me again, even though I wish i could. And i know not everything is "fate" but it felt like it with him for the time.

To win you have to risk loss. Someone smarter then me said that, thats not saying much... but its definitely saying something. I mean he's already broken up with you, you've got nothing to lose. So talk to him, be his friend if you have to... that would be the first step to achieving what you perceive to be impossible. So my advice is take it.

We were never really going out, thats the thing. We were seeing each other and taking it slow because thats what he wanted. I never wanted to get in his way of him and his friends because he is just like me when it comes to friends. I love my friends more then anything and I would do anything for them, and he is the same way. He got really hurt by the girl before me.So i told him take your time it wouldn't bug me.
well, he did but the thing was he never asked me out. Which I hated. But i am talking to him now some what. But it's the same thing.
I ask him how he is doing whats up and crap and all he has to say to me is hummm i'm fine. And I know thats pretty much a lie because nothing is going right in his life, or so is mother told me and his friends. He not a open person so i get now were with being just a friend. I'm trying to make him open up to me so there is something to talk about then he is just fine.
I want to be with him . I would take it so for as long as I have to take it. But it's hard because I have so many people on my butt about not moving on. I tried and still am, but it's harder for me because everything i have ever looked for in a guy he has and every other guy i pick out the bad things.

Your not gonna get over him from one day to the other, we all hope that its that easy but its really not of course. my advice to you is to just simply do whatever you can to get over him, he might seem like the most perfect guy ever but if he really was then he would have no problem confiding in you whats really going on with him. maybe if you just cut all contact with him for a while he'll realize how much you truly cared for him. of course that'll be extremely hard to just not speak to him. but its worth a try. maybe it'll be the best. someone even better always comes along.

I am trying to do that, but then some times i'm like i have to talk to him . I didn't talk to him for about a month and and a half, but i got in to a big fight with my parents and i had no one to talk to so i talked to him. I think that was the seconded biggest mistake of my life. I'm trying not to talk to him . But i do and its like when i text him he always says "who is this" and i'm like omg, nm and he get all pissed and crap. I know after today im not going to talk to him. But it doesn't mean that I'm not going to stop liking him, which I hate because I'm finding every reason why NOT to like any other guy

Hey bob person ! his name isn't really bob !

Lol