Complicated.. he proposed to me but i have a bf

My ex and i are still very close friends, in recent times we were going to have a baby but i lost it (we were split up) anyway we'd kept close he kinda has a new gf and i have a bf yet his gone and proposed to me now i don't know what to do we've had some form of connection since i met him

It is not my business to say :P but I say anyhow.. I think you should have a break with your boyfriend and think what you want..think who is your love..Clear your mind and odd this situation...

Mm..
I say don't even go for it.
Really, this guy HAS a girlfriend, and you have a boyfriend.
Him going off and proposing to you like that is a big sign of unloyalty in a relationship. And really, do you want that?
If I were you, I'd let the past stay the stay and focus on the future.. your current boyfriend.

The ex is kind of my soul mate and i love my bf, i don't want to loose either of them, the ex has a past of relationships gone wrong, it's the fact we are soulmates that i can't loose our friendship, i'm scared i may have to... what makes it all harder is the fact i'll still have to see him he teaches at my old photography school of which im also still heavily involved in and the fall out from this could lead to a lot of questions

But you know it is very wrong you have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend if you still have some feelings towards to each others. You both gonna hurt 2 innocent people. Think about it! So, I think you should decide what you want..before this situation is getting worse..

And also if you see this situation in your boyfriend's/his girlfriend's eyes: you are stealing someone's sweetheart and it is not fair. :/

Hey basically i think you should move on from this. your ex is called an ex for a reason it didn't work the first time round so whats to say it will this time. your not even together and he's offering you all this commitment it's to soon. you have to think how you could trust him aswell if he's willing to basically cheat on his current girl by proposing to you then will he do the same if you two are together? I think you need to take a break from your current boyfriend aswell you say you love him but if you did you wouldn't need to think about the proposal it would just be a no. spend some time on your own and figure out who and what you really want. theres no reason for you to loose your "soulmate" you can still be friends theres nothing to stop that, and if it feels awkard then you wern't really compatible anyway. hope you make the right decision for yourself good luck with this d xxx

Thanks for all the advice everyone, I finally gave him my opinion on the matter which went well and truly beyond a no way and clarifying my feelings and where we stood, i also threatened to tell his gf (who i am friends with) about what he did if he tries to persist she knows his cheated on her.

The stance i took also to me said a lot about the relationship i am in i'm happy with my bf and the reason for delay in answer was deciding how nasty to be about what his done given his girl and me are friends, if i should tell her etc and if following on from this if i could still be friends with him.

So i have made it clear to him we have nothing but friendship and that i don't want anything more, and if he persists once more not only will our friendship be over but also that i will be letting his gf who absolutly adores him know the truth.

I think you should go for the one that you love, don't stay with the one you can live with stay with the one that you can't live without.