What should I do!?

I'm a mess.. i neeeeed someone to help me. Please...

Okay. so I have this friend, and i've been really close to him for about a year and a half now. And we started out always being horriably rude and mean to eachother. But the last couple of months my feeling for him have changed and we are really close and I like him. Not "love" but like. And a friend of mine asked him if he feels the same way. and he says he does, he just doesn't know how to make the first move. But he was going to do it the next day

This other guy that i am friends with, likes me, and he's nice and knows when to add a little teasing into the mixture, but he doens't go over the top. I'm not sure my feelings for him, but i think i'm begining to like him. A friend of mine says that he and his girlfriend and then me and this guy are going to go on a double date here soon.

(Guy #1) Hasn't made a move yet, and its been like 2 weeks, i fear that i'm losing interest...but i know i still have some feelings for him.

WHAT DO I DO!??!?!

Well you cant blame the poor guy because he could be extremely nervous.... and perhaps not think it was true that you really liked him.... so tell him to his face and things might change.

Another.... I dont suggest going out with either of them till you can really tell you like. You dont want to hurt someone and cut things short.

Follow your heart most impportant of all. It knows whats best for you so please follow it, haha

I dont know if going on the double date would be good. I mean its kinda showing that you like that guy, and you dont really know who you really like. Your confused and need to think things out. If you do so you can then make YOUR move.

Dont just leave it up to him, you both have to contribute.

^Neither of them have a girlfriend. I don't know where you got that from.. And i would never think to flirt with a guy who does.

^^To comment on the one above. This guy is probably the most unshy person i have ever met in my life. If you dare him to do something he will. But this other guy is so sweet to me, he's what i've waited for. but then again the other guy is also what i've waited for, its like.. if you would put the two of them together, their the perfect guy. I thank you for you comment.

Tell them to square off in the octagon in an epic battle for your love, to the death! Nothing settles things like a good old fashion UFC Rumble! I kid I kid.

I think either way, you're still going to have feelings for the other one no matter which one you choose and only because the possibility of what might have been will linger. Not that you dont dig the one you do end up choosing, could be the right choice... but often we tend to want the things we can't have. I'd go for the shy guy if I was gay, only because I hate loud mouth arrogant look at me I'll do anything for attention guys. But girls seem to prefer those deuches better... so. Balls in your court, cant score a basket if you dont shoot.

Hey, thanks DJ you rock.. lol

I talked to the first one last night, and he said that he's been having some problems in his life, so he isn't as focused on some of the other things right now. I had a long talk trying to help him through it, and the more i talk to him, the more i like him. I think he feels the same.

The second one, well i like him too, but for different reasons. He's very opinionated and likes to crack silly jokes that make me laugh to no end. I love being around him because he always puts me in a good mood.

I think what i might do is lay low for a while, and just see what happens. I'm thinking about going to the movies with (guy #2) but letting him know that we are going just as friends.. and just testing things out. i've been through so many horriable, unbelievable relationships that i just want to be sure.. that this guy isn't going to hurt me like the guys of my past did. but i guess that that is a chance i have to be willing to take.

You said that you like guy one but your not sure of your feelings for guy two. if your not sure you should stick with guy one. Just becuase he's shy dosnt mean he's not interested babes why don't you make the first move then you might just get what you want. Waiting for a guy to do it could take forever! atleast with guy one your already friends so thats a good starting point for a relationship. Don't jump into anything though if your really not sure which one you want then don't go for either at the moment as this will just lead to heartache. good luck i hope whichever one you choose makes you happy xxx