What do I do?????????????

This past summer my dad told me he may have 2 other kids that nobody knows about. When he was in high school he had a girlfriend and her parents sent her to live in another state because she ended up pregnant. My dad and her split up about a week before she knew though. He and her email a lot and she had twins. I guess they look a lot like my and my younger sister and to this day they think it his...

Support your dad. it was probably a long time ago. you have to remember those twins are people too. people who want a father....i guess the best thing you can do is love them all and be there for each and every one of them

Yeah that pretty much says it all.
Its something that happened in past thou just have to live with it. dont blame your dad people make mistakes.

just be there for everyone and gd luck.
xx

Thanks you guys. I just don't know. I totally forgot I even posted this. I wanted to so many times and deleted it. Me and my mother think that he has this online relationaship with the other lady though. He talks to her and she asks him if he'd ever go there and see her. When he told me it sounded a lot as if he wanted to see her, and their kids. Nobody in our family knows about it.. I feel I have a responsibility to tell my mom..

Well i think you should support your dad, because its something that happened in high school...
and you need to be a part of them because you guys have the same blood... i think your dad has to have the responsibility to tell your mom.... not you because they are not yuor kids... they are his.
Tell your dad that he needs to tell your mom, because she does have a right to know. but from him.

I can't find myself to bring it up to him. He was drunk when he told me. I'm afraid my mom will be mad at him..

I thought about wanting to contact them. I don't know how other than asking my dad and I cant bring it up to him. It'll upset him again and I don't want to do that to him.

I don't know about it, but I think you should talk to your dad even if it upsets him cuz it's a really important thing you're talking about here, but don't be pushy about it. If you want to contact them just contact them your dad doesn't have to know and your brothers/sisters don't have to know that you're their sister either.

Thanks everybody. really. But I can't contact them without talking to him about it. He's the only way I can get their e-mails. My mom thinks that he is in a relationship with this lady that is their mom. He has more pictures of these other girls who are supposed to be my sisters than he does of hios own 4 children and 3 stepsons..

I cant help to hear that wat is going on but wat i do hear is that in my heart is saing just to give up on him to just let him go but i dont know wat to do know now.

He probly has more pics of them because he can't see them daily like the rest of his children and he need to somehow feel a connection with them, it probly goes by the rule, u always want what u don't have, he probly feels bad for never getting close to them and feels like he's making up for it by having their pictures or something, just my opinion, hope i helped :)

Find out the truth and then meet them maybe youll like them

I can't meet them because they live in another state. I don't want to give up on him because I don't want him to hurt for going through it alone.
He has four kids. Me my younger sister and I have an older sister and brother but they are from his first marrage. He dropped comunication with m older siblings and doen't contact them. He got mad when I reconnected with my older sister. she's the clost\est person I have and I told him he can't stop me from tlaking to her. Other than my other 3 siblings that belong to him I have 3 more brothers throuhg my mom. I have 6 sibling now he's telling me I have 2 more@!

It's not as though this is terrible at all.
just be there for your dad and if he wants to see them, encourage him to. It's never too late to be friends with them.

I am there for my dad. Now it seems worse than bfore. He almost told my mom the other night. But he didn't. Now she's wondering what he's hiding and I don't think I should be the one to tell her. It's his responsibility..

I am not for sure what you should do but there is many people out there that are in the same place you are in. i should know my dad told me 2 years ago that i might have a younger sister and she was my best friend. then i was told by my mom that before they met he had a son by another person.

Thanks everyone. Really.. I think I'm just going to let it go. My dad comes closer and closer to telling my mom. I think He'll actually do it soon.

That sounds like a really tough situation
but I agree that you need to support
your dad as it is probably
really hard for your dad to be so divided
and by supporting him, it
wil probably bring you closer