See i like this guy who is older then me

  • XxCoNfUsDxXbRoKeNxXlOnElYxX
    16 years ago

    See there is this guy that i have fallin in love with but here is the problem. He is 18 and I am 13 so I really dont kno what to do. Not to mention the fact that he is in love with me too. No this is not an online relationship we met by me ex's best friend cuz this guy is his older brother

  • DJ
    16 years ago

    Alright, I'll throw some words at ya here before I gets my drunk on. True love is blind, I don't believe in age restrictions when it comes to love... its not like buying booze you don't need an ID. Now don't misunderstand me I'm not saying you should get with this guy, in fact... in my opinion which is worthless keep in mind, well its worth about 2 cents. In my opinion, you should wait a while until you don't feel the need to ask for others opinions, until you're sure in your heart that its right. If you truly love each other then in a couple months or years it will still be so. Your 13 you have lots and lots of time to figure this out... Don't rush into it. Like how does he even know u, is he like ur babysitter? lol sorry that was rude... just a joke though, dont hate me :(, i have the best intentions I swear.

  • Normal is the Watchword
    16 years ago

    And an 18 year old would have an interest in a 13 year old why? At that age you're most likely still in middle school, and I said most likely as people have been in high school at that age.

  • XxCoNfUsDxXbRoKeNxXlOnElYxX
    16 years ago

    What are your intentions

  • Normal is the Watchword
    16 years ago

    I'm just wondering is all. I know girls mature faster than boys, most of the time, so that a thirteen year old girl can be at almost the same level as someone probably 16, or if they are really mature 18, [Again not all girls but some]. But an eighteen year old should be thinking about college, a job, or enlisting in the army, finishing up senior year of work or starting college homework: Prom, or a hectic schedule.

    A thirteen year old should be worrying about starting high school, making new friends, getting work done on time, and being a kid, who really wants to grow up older than they are.

    I'm not exactly dumb, I have made choices and I have learned from them. At fifteen I started liking a twenty-five year old who said he liked me back. This was just a few months after an emotionally abusive relationship that took place at fourteen. Looking back on that, yeah I was pretty stupid but I learned from it all.

  • XxCoNfUsDxXbRoKeNxXlOnElYxX
    16 years ago

    See no one really knows how i feel about him

  • Beautiful Chaos
    16 years ago

    13 & 18, speaking from personal experience I would say it is a no no.

  • Normal is the Watchword
    16 years ago

    People will care how you feel, but this is for honest advice, after all nobody wants to see you hurt nor will we know how this ends. I'm working to be a child/teen psy and have seen many people go through the same things, you notice apattern for the MOST part but then again everybody is different. We don't know you personally after all.

    Please tell us how you feel. It would help.