What Do You Hate About You [Vent]

I dont really know if thats allowed to be asked but i see no harm...if you write down what you hate you can see who comapres and you can see what you need to work on...

so please do tell anything && everything ((mind you this is a venting space so spiiil ^_-))

we're all counting on you so dont hold back.

That no matter how I tried....I cannot escape my past....I hate that I am anything like him. I hate how weak I really turned out to be. I hate that I can do nothing for others or even tell my darkest thoughts and dreams. How I fade away from people even when I know its right. I hate that I must put on a mask so others don't see. And that I feel all this despair.....but know it's not the end.

I hate that sometimes I am just to honest and loyal not that thats a bad thing but at times it gets me hurt and I am tired of being hurt.

Tammi,

I see nothing productive coming from self hatred, sure there are things that I would like to change about myself or am in the midst of changing, but hate myself? Never, I am sure we will all find enough people throughout our lives who wish to bring us down, I would prefer not to be one of them.

I hate that i am never good enough for anything. im not good enough to have friends. i'm not good enough to have a boyfriend. i'm not a good enough of a person. i'm not good enough to walk the face of the earth.

and i will spend the remainder of my years. alone.

I hate that I let a good thing pass me by because I couldn't be honest and say, "I'm conforting my past to try and improve the two of us in the present."

I'm working on this too late now but it's getting done: Honesty is now the key as it should have been.

I hate the fact that I make a big thing out of nothing and I find it have to forgive people who wronged me.
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"These types of questions belong in cosmopolitan, or some other dumb pre-adolescent magazine"

Heh you remind me of that guys english teacher in the "Intelligent Discussion" thread...

1. This wasnt inspired at random for "adolescent" raving. Actually in one of my classes we were studying advertisments. I was reading certain things that i didn't quite agree with that they said about women and how advertising is linked to self-image...i mean that parts obvious but they were saying that the media had this mass control on all of society ((again true to a certain degree)) but then she went on to talk about how women suffer more because they're weak and some crap about how the product steals your love for yourself and offers it back for the price of the product...This thread if anything is kind of a study. I want to see how much of it was right.

2. Not to be rude, but well you seem quick to attack...is there any reason because i find it a little offensive...and if you didnt mean it that way im sorry for the misinterpertation, i just figured you did because as a moderator poet one thing you must be very good at is your wording.

I hate that I seem to play with people like puppets. I don't do it INTENTIONALLY, but it always seems to happen and it bites me in the butt in the long run.

Wait what?
sorry.
i know im an idoit

I hate the fact that I can't leave the past behind

I don't really think Bob was "attacking", he was giving his opinion on the question asked and though it was worded a little differently, we both have the same opinion. Why waste time hating on yourself? Maybe it would have been better to include your reasoning behind the question, as you now have done.

I hate that I'm becoming the person people expect me to be

"I don't really think Bob was "attacking", he was giving his opinion on the question asked and though it was worded a little differently, we both have the same opinion. Why waste time hating on yourself? Maybe it would have been better to include your reasoning behind the question, as you now have done."

-your right i dont think he was attacking. i also dont necessarily agree with the whole "hate yourself" theme either but the truth is most people hate things about themselves...its just a fact of life. idk it just bothered me the way he worded it is all : c

I hate that no one knows who I am but its my fault because I won't let anyone. I hate that I push everyone away until I'm alone, crying in the dirt and begging for help but no one will come. I hate myself for not being able to forget... not being able to move on... to have a life again. I hate living on the past and hoping that it will change.

I effing hate it that no one in my freakin school can learn to keep they're damn mouth shut and leave me and my boyfriend alone!

or...EXboyfriend now

gohd
i'm so mad
and it's because of THEM that we broke up
we were tired of them saying sh*t about us all the time

i'm so incredibly sad and just...
i feel like crying so hard
but i wont let him know it.....

:'(

The only thing i hate about myself is that i have no confidence in myself...Im very quite, I find it hard speaking to people and always think im gonna mess something up, but i do hide it from other people.
But that just me i'll just have to deal with it i guess :)

XxLuciferxX

Hmm what i hate about myself... i hate that i dont try to get my work done so i can pss school and have a decent life, i hate my anger and the fact it gets so uncontrollable, i hate it when i do everything i can to protect my friends but they dont prtect me back, i hate venmore that most relantionships i get into i can't ever seem to trust the person im with, i have my reasons for hating those parts of myself, but i also realize these things i hate are also part of me and the only thing i can do to change that is accept it -
raindrops

I hate that no one can accept them selves no matter what they do. I love myself because I am unique, high hoped, and I love everyone. Maybe some ppl need to look at my post and think about themselves a liitle bit more.

Or just accept both good and the bad within yourself

I hate that i still love 'em when they hurt me. i hate that i don't know why i feel so terrible about myself..

I hate that i've ruined almost all my teenage years from being in residential placement. i never got to have a real childhood. i wish i never had this sickness.

But there is a positive in this. I've met two very wonderful people who are my best friends. i never really had a best friend before, they all usually used me. So that's the positive in all this mess.

I hate the scars i've caused to cover my arms.i hate that i don't have "the looks" that everyone wants and that i can't be open wth anyone.i hate that i can't be who everyone wants me to be.that i'm so pessimistic and that i'm not good enogh or pretty enough for anyone

I hate that...that i'm weak.

I hate everything about me

-I hat that I can never let go of things that I know hurt me.
-I hate that I take so much from the people around me yet I am still here for them everyday.
-I hate how I make myself depressed over things by overanalyzing everything.
-I hate that I turn to drinking as an outlet to my emotions.
-I hate how I can never make up my mind about things that I want.
-I hate how when I love someone and they hurt me but I keep going back.
-I hate how I get so angry at things but never really let them out.
-I hate the way I look

I hate... that im dying...

And i cant bring myself to tell anyone

I hate my body and my lack of self control.
I hate how demanding I am towards people I love.
I hate that I can't control my anger.
I hate the fact that I love Edgar.

I hate the fact that i stayed in skool all through the years i wish i dropped out in yr 10

I hate it that I always think negatively about something that should only be positive or I get bad thoughts in my head that wont leave me alone, I get really anxious when I shouldnt, I freak out when everything is ok and I am paranoid when things are fine.
I need a doctor heh

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I hate my heart for still loving him....

I hate that the only thing I'm afraid of in this world is myself.

I love myself, flaws included.

I hate to see so many self-negative people in such a small space, lol. It does comfort me to see that most of you are young, and will learn to love yourself a little more as you grow up. Take care, don't dwell on the negatives, and have an amazing day. :)

I never said I didnt love myself!
Just there are some things I could do to change my self into a better person.
sometimes its good to get it out as well.
If you dont like it dont read them.

xx

I hate how I have lost my innocence... (not virginity) but I can remember how nice I would be, soft, and open... But being hurt and betrayed has almost made me grow cold... Don't get me wrong a soft side is here, but I just have a hard time trusting people and letting my guard down so I come off hard. I let those people and experiences change me, and I let them change my outlook on people. I probably even pushed good people away from me because of it.

Mm i agree cept that this is like the depression forum so idk if thats breaking rules : /

I hate my past and everything I've done to the people I love and to the people who cared about me. I hate all the people that hurt me and I hate him for making such a stupid decision and leaving me here. I hattte that I didnt see this coming and I regret not saying sorry.

I hate me.
i hate how its hard for me to eat.
i hate how its hard for me to be happy.
i hate how best friends can turn on you.
i hate how i let myself get used.
i hate how i give in to pressure.
i hate how hard it is for me to say no.
i hate how my self confidence is so low.
i hate how hard it is for me to yell at bitches, but its so easy for me to yell at family.
i hate how my dad is a dick.
and i hate how when i fight back, i lose.
i hate how i cry all the time, and i hate how im weak.
i hate how i have so many problems.
i hate how i cut.
i hate that i'm stupid.
i hate my inability to pick good friends.
i hate how hard i try.
i hate how i feel so ugly, when everyone says im not.
i hate all the secrets i keep.
i hate that my journal is my only best friend.
i hate how i toy with the idea of suicide.
i hate how i drink so much.
i hate that i let everything get to me.
i hate that the comments of bitches can wreck my day.
i hate me, and i hate how selfish i am.
i hate how hard it is for me to be normal.
i hate how much i lie.
i hate that i try to change but nothing works.
i hate how i look and i hate what people say about me.
i hate that i have so much to say to someone, but i usually dont get around to saying it.
i hate that i want people to care so much.
i hate how sometimes i actually care about what people say.

i hate how i hate so much... hah.

I hate the fact that i cant trust the people most close to me
i hate that i always fight with my mum even when shes trying to help me
i hate the fact that i do know who i am anymore
i hate not knowing if ill wake up tomorrow morning
i hate eating...
and i hate myself for always keeping to my self never standing up for my self and getting my self into such a big whole that every time i manage to finally get out i just push my self back into it.

I hate how people are in here trying to be positive when its a thread about what you dont like. If they wanted to post positives they would go to another thread.

EH

xx