There is this guy...

See there is this guy who I thiught was my best friend but for some reason now he hates me cause he thinks I lied to him but I didnt and I don't know how to get him to understand that I didn't lie to him and that whatever I did to hurt him or make him mad then I am sorry.

What does he think you lied to him about? but obviously if he has no trust in you.. is he worth being your best friend?

I've been there, a friend of mine who was a guy had a major fight in front of people, yelling at me saying things like, "I don't appreciate what you've done." Then he said I had started a rumour about him which I had not, and this was after days of him giving me the cold shoulder too. I tried talking to him right away, went through more yelling, more tears, but kept tryin got talk to him until he understood. A week later we went to prom together as friends and he found out that I had been telling the truth when it turns out his class had started the rumor.

Talk right away but don't push him, if he needs space let him soak in all that you have said.

See I try to talk to him on the phone but everytime he realizes it is me calling he hangs up and there's no other way to talk to him. I mean I say around town but as soon as he sees me he walks the other way.

He thinks that I have lied to him about everything. I mean he really won't give me an answer. And yes he is really worth it.

This is tough. Well about three weeks ago my bf broke up with me and started avoiding me. He didn't want me to see him so he would disappear a lot, and he was never the type to even do that, and if I called him he would start crying on the phone so then he stopped talking all together saying he needed his space. [We broke up because I could barely see him due to personal problems.] Well Iwrote him a long note explaining how I felt and taped it to his front door so that if he wanted to he oculd read it when he got home. He ended up doing that and after a few days we started seeing each other again and now we joke around like always.

That's cool but see I never can go to his house but I think I am goin to do something like that and carry it with me everywhere I go and if I ever see him then I might just walk to him and say something like look if you have any hope of us bein friends again then please read or if you want to know the truth about everything. Sometimes I just wish that he would realize that I have never lied to him and that I miss hangin out with him every weekend.

If he thinks that he lied to you *which u didn't* He obviously is NOT worth your time or energy. Some guys are just dicks.

Yea I have realized that a long time ago

But see now he won't even talk to me and it sucks

But I still don't kno what to do to get him to talk to me.

Huns i think if he was a good friend to you he would believe you did lie. you can try to tell him the truth about it and make him believe you never lied to him. but a friendship that is easily broken because of a lie that never happened is it worth the pain?

See but the thing is I didn't lie to him.