My boyfriend or My best friend

See now everything has changed and now that I have a boyfriend, my best friend doen't think I should date him but sometimes I think she is saying that because that is her ex. And she still has feelings for him but she gets on the bus everyday talking about him not to mention the fact that for some reason she tells me to either choose her or him and I told him and he said that e doesn't like her anymore but I really don't know which one to believe HELP ME!!!!!

I just went through this like 3 weeks ago. She shouldnt make you choose between you or him. But heres some advice, guys will come and go, but friends are here forever. There isnt anything tht says you and this new guy will be together forever. But just tell your friend that her and your boyfriend broke up for a reason, and she has no "rights" over him. You are free to date who you want, forget all the rules like NO DATING FRIENDS EX'S OR FAMILY MEMBERS, if you feel something for someone go for it. TEll your friend to wait and see if things work out between you and this guy. If shes really your friend she will have to accept it

Stephanie Naylor

See that whole rule should have applied to her cause I went out with him and then we took a break that is when he went out with her and we were friends at that time and then she dumped him and that's when we decided to give it another shot.

No dating an ex of a friend or family member, isn't that the unwritten rule to get people out of these situations. Both you and her should really follow that instead of playing, "switch the ex" How long are you dating him and how long did she? How much space between them breaking up and you getting together?

See the 1st time me and him dated was for a month, then he dated my friend for 2 weeks and the space between them breaking up and me and him getting together was like a month so yea.

Honestly, I think you should talk to him and then your friend seperately, I mean tell them to be completely honest because you would want to know how they both were feeling. If they had only dated about two weeks, unless it was rushed love, I think a month at the least was ok to get together with someone else, but remember boys come and go, a true friend is hard to find. So tlak to the both of them.

Best friends should be first. I doubt you really love him anyways, so it's not a big deal. You and your friend should both stay away from, he's doing nothing but causing problems and it's not worth it.