Rape please help

I am on the cross country team at school, and we went to the state meet. The night before the meet, the team went out to eat at an Italian restaurant. Something didn't settle well, and I had an allergic reaction so I went to the hotel. My roommates asked if I would leave the door unlocked because they nded to get in and thy gave me the key.

I was the only girl on the team, so I had to share the room with 3 guys.. Well, I went to lay down and I fell asleep. I woke up, and my 3 roommates were drunk.. And one thing led to another and well, I got raped...

I do not know where to turn because my guy and I have been getting in fights every day and I have become distant... All we do is fight. He doesn't know why.. but i have really been on nerves end since then.. And we are on the verge of breaking up.. I don't know what to do. PLEASE help

First, go to the police, it's a scary thing to think about I know, but if you don't you might every well regret never doing so and you might believe this guy might have power of you even though he has nothing. Second, you need to confide in somebody, your parents, a teacher you trust, somebody who can help you and not talk for you. It's hard because most sports people are looked high upon when it comes to school, but if you do not tell somebody you might end up really inward and depressed, I know this is not certain but most likely. REMEMBER: YOU DID NOTHING WRONG. Being drunk was never an excuse and if he tries to use that then you know he is lower than the nothing he is now at the moment.

I didn't go to the police.. I cant go to my parents. They kicked me out. I can't go to the love of my life because he despises me right now.. I am just confused

I wasn't raped but I went through abuse, and I sometimes wish I had gone to the police if people weren't forcing me to have decided that split second. It can cause relationship problems, I lost a great guy because I kept some secrets from him about my past, and if he is the love of your life he will understand. I think you should go to the police though but at the least if this was recently go to a hospital or something to make sure you are physically healthy.

The thingis.. It happened a month ago... and...I I honestly think I am pregnant...

Well, what's happened has happened, i'm not saying that about the rape, i mean the fact that you didn't immediately report it and have a rape kit check. but you can still report your story to the police, if you are pregnant, it proves that you have been sexually active, (whether or not by force..) but you still need to report it.

what they did was shameful and wrong, and although you can never forgive them for what they have done, you can get an ounce of justice.

Depending on the state, country there are different statues (sp) of limitations and some can go on for eyars to ahve a crime reported.

Wow that sucks
i mean it totally isnt your fault

but its kinda cool, in a terrible way, to admit these things to random strangers on this forum

First, even if you were the only girl on the team, you should not have been put in a room with 3 guys, so the school would have some responsibility in this matter.

I don't know what the one thing leading to the other is, but none of us can truly do anything for you, if it happened you need to tell someone.

Omg that is so horribl was the skool aware of the fact u slept wiht 3 otheer guys that is riducious

They didn't have another room and they wouldldn't let my mom go because of it. It was either I shared or I didn't compete.. I had to compete or no scholorship

The fact still remains that if they made you share a room with 3 guys, the school is responsible.

Call the police you need to that is somthing that needs to be done go to a friend and tell her/him you need to call the cops

It's too late

No it's not too late, if the school made you room with guys, they are responsible for whatever happened.

It's never too late.
Tell someone.
Get help.
Find out if you are pregnant or not.
Do the right thing.
Dont be scared. It was not your fault.
PM me if u still need help or someone to talk to.
CHIN UP
xx

Thank you all

My Opinions: Tell Someone.
Like everyone else on here, i think that someone should be notified. Someone that can help you.
Its what you need, believe it or not.

I'm extremely sorry that this happened to you, But i think that deep down inside you know that the best thing to do is tell someone.

You need to tell someone
because although you couldn't save yourself from
what happened,
by telling your story you could prevent it from happening to another innocent girl.
If your boyfriend knew what had happened to you
I am sure that he would then understand.
You need to get justice and cant allow
the person who raped you to just get away with it