Help Me..Anyone?

  • ourlilsecret
    16 years ago

    Okk Soo.. Heres Myy Problem..

    I Reallyy Like This Guy..
    Well I love Himm..
    I know people sayy im to young for love..
    but i know what i feel..
    and this is love..
    ive nvr felt this way before..
    but anyways..

    okk like me and him we;re together off and on for twoo years...
    well we broke up again about two weeks ago...
    i heard he cheated...
    he said that he wasnt but i didnt no what to do..
    ive tried to move on..
    everytime we break up..
    i try someone new...
    but hes all i ever think about.
    hes all i want..
    what do i do?
    or more like anyone have any ideas on how to get over him?

  • Goodbye
    16 years ago

    "ive tried to move on..
    everytime we break up.. "
    This is a big mistake. You are doing absolutely wrong if you just be with someone without being in love with this person. In other words, you wanna hear it or not, this is using people, IF you are just being with them in wrong reasons.

    Yes, breaking-ups are not easy to deal. It takes time to move on. I think (for my experiences at least) many people still have feelings towards to each others when they break up.

    So you mean the reason you two broke up was someone told you he cheated you. This means when you are judging someone based on other people's story is that you don't really trust him, do you? If you would love him, you would hear his version about story and found out the truth and then make a decision.

    What I noticed (maybe I am wrong, forgive if I am) you are insecure about this relationship. Like you sais you have on and off for 2 years. OK, relationships can be a little rocky in the begin..but then they should become stable...OR...end up breaking up.

    Maybe this is also about your age. You are young, which is great. You have so much time to develope yourself and learn what you want from relationship. Loving someone is the a age guestion, but you must consider you thinking way is not fully developed yet.. And I don't mean anything evil by saying this.

    Well, I am not the best person to talk about relationships but here is my best advice:
    Think now why this relationships has been like this..On off on off.. Is there some mistake you both have done or repeated.. Then think are you really ready for this relationship and is this relationship what you want. If answer is no, then you did the right decision to break. If you are insecure, please think more.. And IF you feel like this was a mistake, you can talk with him and discuss about this. AND then do your best for trying to make that relationship work.

    I wish this had some help for you.

    All the best for you,
    Noor

  • SoUrNameIsTia
    16 years ago

    I say, try going out with him again. and watch the things u guys do. like pay attention for the things u might break up with him 4. and if there is less and less. i think everything will be ok.