What do you feel about young love?

  • HisBlueEyedAngel
    16 years ago

    Ok trying to see what all of you think about young love. Do you think that two people who are young can grow up and get married and be together the rest of there life from like ages 15 and just turned 18? I think it can happen I mean I know lots of people who are in there late 30s and have been together since the 6th grade and never broke up and are married with kids and are happy.

  • Jaime
    16 years ago

    I think that it CAN happen, but it's unlikely. Most young people who feel they truly love someone, will grow up in a few years and realize that they didn't even have a clue. Not trying to be negative- enjoy the feelings and the relationship, just don't count on forever when you still have lots of growing up to do.

  • HisBlueEyedAngel
    16 years ago

    I am moving to Texas and he is moving with me and is going to live with me. He has been hurt so many times so I am positive he won't brake up with me. Not to be defensive or anything.

  • Beautiful Chaos
    16 years ago

    I don't think anyone can say for sure what will last and what won't, especially now days. I doubt many of the people who have gone through divorce or broken up, thought it was going to turn out that way. It all depends on what 2 people put into a relationship and how they change and evolve over time.

  • Jaime
    16 years ago

    Oh, I didn't even realize this was a personal question, my answer was just a general one.

    However, how many times he's been hurt has nothing to do with whether or not he'll break up with you. Also, be careful with the age difference because he is likely at a different maturity level than you. Um, good luck, I guess. Also, be careful, I have to wonder what someone his age wants with someone so young.

    Ignoring the age difference completely though, remember that you have tons of options at this age. Don't let somebody get in the way of any of them, as you still have lots of growing up to do.

    Again, good luck. I'll leave it at that.

  • Jenna
    16 years ago

    I'm 15 almost 16 and my fiance` just turned 18 and obviously since i say he's my fiance` we're getting married so yeah i think if you really want it to work for forever you can do it. My grandparents are the same age difference as me and Mickey and they're still together...People these days just have different expectations w/ marriage and everything then they did in the 30s 40s and 50s...

  • Normal is the Watchword
    16 years ago

    Yeah my proposal was a simple marry me when I was fourteen and the boy was fourteen. I ran out of the room lol. I don't think I'd want to be engaged that young, it's not that it couldn't work, I know and have heard stories where it did work, but it's just not for me to have been the type to have accepted and agree to marry the first person I had even dated.

  • Goodbye
    16 years ago

    Young love has different kind of problems than love in adulthood (my personal opinion).

    First of all: you both are now pretty same life situation. I guess both you are still studing. Most of people still study in that age. But then, both of you will make different kind of decision. Maybe one of you enters the university, other does not get it and studies.. Or both gets, who knows. My point is that you might have a different world. In this "different world" you both will have you own friends related to studing or working besides your old friends.

    Second thing is, you both are going to grow up a lot. And your personalities might still change. You have new oportunities, new sitation who have not face before. It is very challenging to keep your relationship stable and good, when everything around is changing.

    Third thing is in university or work place you will meet a lot of new people who have similar interests with you. You might feel you have more in common with them than with your girl/boyfriend.

    Fourth, the dreams you had might get old...I mean...the weddings you planned to have in 2 years are not anymore something you want..Or the big house with garden is not anymore fitting your plans..

    Well, these examples were from my friend's relationship. Excuse me if they sound stupid or something..

    But in the other hand...many people get in engaged early will be together the rest of their life, or..let's say...at least in "old good days" ;).

    Maybe this world is getting crazier because nowdays statistics (at least in Finland) reveals that half of the marriages will end up in divorce..

  • Colby
    16 years ago

    My opinoun.... yes very much so... i mean if your able to love your parents then why arrnt you able to love someone else. Obviously you wouldnt love your mom romanticly but in someone reasons they are similar. Very rare for it to happen but yet very possible at the same time.

  • Babydoll
    16 years ago

    It could happen but doesn't always turn out that way.

  • your love is mine
    16 years ago

    Well I thin that young love could go on till the rest of you life but those are the rear typs of love. I mean yea you may know somethat say they love
    thier parttner they are with and always will but and then brake up in a couple of weeks but there are some that really do mean that and keep thier word. and thats what I think of young love.=)

    P.S. Hope I answered your question