Jealousy Please Help Me!

I am currently in a relationship..Obviously.. and me and my gf have been together for 1 year and 4 months now.. it seems to me that she has changed in the 2 weeks of spring brake. She has been acting weird around me and is now hiding stuff from me.She wont tell me what she does.. anymore. And what i hate the most is that she is always supposedly playing around with me and she always says : "Yeah look at him, im gonna do him.".. or such things that hurt you.. even if its the least possibly thing imagined. Please help me i dont know what to do and my reactions are becoming anger towards her. I cant take it.

It sounds as though, yes something could be going on, I would just call her out on it, tell her you have notice things changing and it is bothering you. Even if it is nothing, she should be willing to talk about it if it is bothering you and creating tension in your relationship.

I have just like 2 minutes ago we were in a 10 min brake from school and she told me she was gonna start getting home around 8 or 9. And i said what she was gonna do and she said it was non of my business. So i told her to stop it with her little jokes that she makes about other people if she wants me to trust her. And she replied well if you trust me you wouldn't be asking me what i am doing.. and i just said because i want to know.. incase anything happens.. i wanna be there for you. And then she aid i have to go.. and tried giving me a hug and i just turned around.. i dont know what to do so much anger and im crying..its so difficult and even more because i am at school.

Asking where someone is going is not about lack of trust. If nothing is up, what is the big deal about saying where you are going? The only time I have had someone lie or not say where they were going, was usually when they are up to something.

Im so scared.. i dont know what i would do without her. Honestly. I have gave up everything just to be with her. I only have her now.. and i have non of my friends because of being with her. I am going to talk to her at lunch which is in about a hour. But im so scared. I hate this feeling. And i cant take it anymore. Im so scared if shes cheating on me. Or up to something. I dont know how to start the conversation.. because of what i did.. like 10 min ago now.

"I have gave up everything just to be with her. I only have her now.. and i have non of my friends because of being with her."

Why did you have to give up your friends to be with her? If she is cheating, better to find out now, no matter how much it hurts, than to stay with someone who doesn't care about you longer than you have to. All you can do is take it as it comes.

Take it from me, I know how you feel. My fiance today we've been together for three yrs on and off today. And we've been going down here since we got engaged because he's cheated on me and he's hit me. But I think we're slowly climbing back up. But when we were fighting all the time he was always talking to this bitch "Nicole" and when ever I asked him what they were talking about or what he was doing he would always say nothing and then one day he told me "Kala I've been cheating on you for the past two yrs almost three yrs completely." I was hurt, I was crying...This is the man that proposed to me Feb 2 of this yr and he told me that he's cheating on me with this girl that I hate...She still tries to talk to him but I'm not allowing it anymore cause she's been trying to get in the middle of us and I'm not allowing that. I love this guy more than anything in this world thats the only reason I've put up with this shit all this time. But dude you got to think to yourself, do you love this girl enough to make you go through all this pain? Is she the one that you want to spend forever with? Think about it, cause you're still young so am I...but I've found the guy that I want to spend forever with and no matter how much pain he puts me through I'm still right behind him no matter what. But more than likely if he cheats on me once again I will be walking away I may end up coming back I don't know but the whole thing is I love him more than anything and I don't know if I'll ever find anyone better than him. But dude just follow your heart and listen to what it says it may guide you the wrong way it could guide you the right way, but sometimes things has to get worse before they can get better, trust me I had to call the cops on my fiance because he threaten to kill himself a few days ago and they almost had to send him a mental institution and after that day we've been doing great. Things got so bad that we have to get better, we couldn't get any worse. We were already fist fighting, cussing each other out, we were on the edge of breaking up bad but after that night we've been doing great, everything has changed for us. And I'm happier than anything in this world. Good luck and if you ever want to talk you're welcome to pm me.

~Kala Sonya Dearing Turner~

Your young and worried. Maybe she just needs her space, or just sit her down and have a good long talk with her.

Yeah well.. i do think i wanna spend forever with her. i had a talk with her yesterday and made me realize a lot of things that were on my part bad too. But yes i have gone through a lot of pain too with her. But im decided to spend many years to come with her.

Thank you so much for the support about my post. I really take everything you said into mind. And i talked to her yesterday about this. And we fixed it. even though its still a little scratchy but were doing ok. I hope to be as long as possible with her.