He Cheated On Me

Okay, here's the deal... I was dating this guy. He was amazing, everything I could ask for. He made me feel so good about myself and I knew I really wanted to be with him for a long time.

But . . . I noticed that one of his "close" friends was different from the rest. I was scared, I was afraid of him possibly cheating on me with her, but then I would just tell myself,"No... not him. He's different, I swear. He wouldn't hurt me like that." But.. I talked to the girl, and she admitted they were dating and told me every single thing he ever told me.

I was heart broken. I confronted him and all he could do was send me an email explaining the situtation. He believes he also deserves a second chance, and told the other girl that I was the one he'd be trying to get back. I'm not sure what it is, but he says he is going to do something to prove that he loves me and deserves a second chance.

And.... I just dunno what to do. I hate cheaters, that was the worst possible thing he could do to me, but I really want to be with him. . it sucks. I can't get him out of my head. It's driving me crazy.

It is a simple case of you don't know what you got until it's gone lol How long would it have gone on if you hadn't found out? That's the real question. You are young, I know so cliche, but I think as a matter of self respect you need to keep on fishin' lol

Actually, I'm not really sure. While I was yelling at him last night, I forgot to ask him that. But he should be getting home soon, and I know he'll email me. When he does that, I'll ask. It wasn't right.. he had something with her since before we even got together.

For me once a guy cheats, he's gone. If it was going on for a while, his favorite thing owuld be on EBAY or smashed. But for that it would have to be going on the whole time we were dating and we'd have to be dating for a whole heck of a lot of months.

Personally, i hate cheaters..my boyfriend has cheated on me plenty of times early in our relationship..being the dumb girl i am thinking that he was actually telling the truth when he said he changed i took him back everytime. he's changed a lot and we've been together 2 years now without any cheating. I guess it really depends on your situation and if you believe he really is sorry