16 and wants to get pregnant?

Alright so my best friend is 16 years old dating an 18 year old. She's been having unprotected sex because she wants to get pregnant. The only reason she wants to get pregnant is because she hates her house. She lives with her mom, step dad and 2 little sisters. She thinks if her mom finds out she's pregnant she'll kick her out and move in with her boyfriend. The thing is her boyfriend doesnt have a whole ton of money. He has no job and his family isnt very well off..I need some advice on what to tell her so maybe she'll listen to me

Wow. Way to resolve your problems. Having a child is a big deal. In my opinion she's being pretty immature in the way she's dealing with this. She needs to think about the baby too, not just herself. I don't think she wants that baby growing up and hating his/her mother and wanting to move out just like her in about 15 years. These things have a way of repeating themselves. Cycles you know. I'm sure there's a different way of going about this problem.

That is extremely immature.
Having a child is not something you should just do in order to get what you want.
It's not like you're buying a car, or doing something to yourself, you're creating a life.
She should find some other way to piss her parents off if she wants to leave that badly.

I guess its not completly that she wants to make her mom mad so she can move out its that she really thinks she loves this kid and he tells her all the time that she needs to move in with him and they can have a family..i know neither one of them is ready at all for a baby but she doesnt believe me

Sounds like her life is chaos, why would a child straighten that out? If she hates home, move out, that doesn't have to involve an innocent child being brought into the world for all the wrong reasons. Her lack of maturity in coming to this decision just proves how wrong it is.

All i can say bout this is like err one else why doesnt she move out there is such a thing as called immancipating yourself where u go to court and say that you want to move out but the thing is isthat you have to have ajob to show that your responsible and have to show them that u can make it on ur own and that would be better than bringing and innocent child into the world who wouldnt get all the love and attention they need and having unprotected sex thats jus being dumb

...My girlfriend just loves kids and wants to have one for the hell of it... the only thing stopping her is me.... lol

and this girl is dumb if she wants to ruin her future so she doesn't have to deal with a little annoyance at home

Okay ur g/f is only 16....... She has a whole life ahead of her.. Again.. she is only 16 who says she is too be with this guy the rest of her life.....??????????????????????? Okay.. Does she hate living at home because her parnets want the best for and try too make her do right? Well if that is the case maybe she should listen too her family because in the long run she will wish she had listen.. Trust me she dont need NO child at 16.. she is a child her self and very stupid.... Plz dnt hate me for saying that but that is very childish.. why bring a child into this world the way this world is now.. This world is very dangerous.. why bring in a child if the only reason is the move out from ur parnets.. If she is women enough to want a child.. tell her I said she is women enough to move out and support her own self without a child.. what about getting a job and doing something with ur free time and always remeber u cant live off love and welfare..

Well im 16 and i wouldnt mind getting pregnant but its not like im trying to. but then again my boyfriend has a job and his own place and could support all three of us on what he makes. and its a pretty stable relationship (almost two years) but yeah if shes doing it for that reason thats INCREDIBLY stupid. grab her and shake her and tell her that is the stupidest thing you ever heard! just make sure she listens, if she really considers you a friends she'll take your advice into consideration, if she doesnt then shes not a real friend....and in that case you cant do anything about it.

Tell her to think about the child she'd be dragging into this world, cuz thats the most important thing, she shouldn't have a kid for her, she should have a kid for the kid itself.
Another thing, she may hate her life, but I wouldn't say that's a reasonable answer to it all.. If she's being abused, she should go to athorities and report the abuse... if not she isn't in the kind of situation where she NEEDS to get out of her parents house. Yet more, has she asked her bf about this, if she has how could he be ok with it? I think you need to talk to them both and her parents if it's that serious, her parents could change the way they treat her and she wouldn't feel like she has to get pregnant to get out of their house.

Having a baby will be worst thing for her to do, I know that's obvious. But My mother married my dad when she was 16 and they had me when she was 17. Now my parents a are divorced. What is she gonna do if her bf leaves her when she gets pregnant?