Do your parents argue?

mine does and they drag me in it and now i get upset cause now they yell at me and they call me stupid and that i dont know anything i already tried to run away i already cut my self a few times can someone help me...

yeah my parents do argue as well but not like yours i dont think. it's mostly between themselves but they always want me to pick who they think is right. i usually just walk away. i think the only thing you really can do is try to talk to them about it and how their arguing makes you feel (as fun and smarmy as that sounds), walk away or if that doesnt work just do a countdown mantra to yourself inside your head. mine is currently "just two and a half more years allie... just two and a half more years...." then deep breath. it helps me anyway.

i tried i have two more years to get out of hell...and hell is my home...my parents drink and all and i tried to go to the councelor to ask him for advice and he told me that its my fault i cause them to argue and then he told me to tell them we need a family councelor...the thing is i get scared when i talk to them...

wow, he told you it's your fault that your parents agure? where did HE get his degree? lol

None of my parents drink, and I love them to death but for the past while they've been arguing arguing over the little things in life, and bringing me into them.... and I dont even know what i do to make my dad yell at me the way he does, he doesn't hurt me but sometimes he gets so angry Im scared and im afraid that he is going to hurt me, and I dont think that a child should be afraid of their father it should be the total opposite! My mom is always crying, my dad has a very bad temper and he has hit my brothers before, and he regreted ever doing so..... I know he wont hurt me, but I shouldn't be afraid either... I dont really know what to do.... I'll keep loving him, that is what you have to do forgive your parents, they dont mean to bring you down they dont know how much their hurting you but im sure they dont mean to and never ever in your life think that it is your fault that your parents argue it never is...
~Charity~

well yesterday i had a fight with my mum about her not letting me doing something and she screamed fucken hell your dad doesn't want you to i nearly divroced him over this so shut the fuck up

Well, I only have one so I guess.. no but she does abuse me...

mine do... sometimes for a long time, they say its nothing and that they are just dissagreeing, but yeah im not dumb... well not -that- dumb. lol. no they bring me into it all the time, and usually its becasue of me that they do it ne way, i dont do ne thing but say something, and it gets them started...all parents argue... and if they dont then there is something wrong... they're getting something from someone else.lol no i dont know y... a marrige just doesn't happen with out the argueing... it
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hi..my name is Amanda. I am suffering from depression. My parents abuse me too. My mom is an alcoholic and bipolor. I don't know my dad. I have a sister. My step dad raped my sister which who is now 20 with a disease from him. I have gottan tooken away from my mom and jus got in a fight with my boyfriend. I have an eating disorder and all. I can eat 1 thing a day and i won't be hungery. Any way my answer is leave. Go move in with one of your relatives. That's what I did. I'm still depressed but I don't have my mom hurting me no more. Well I'm sorry and I hope u use my advice.
-Amanda

Yeah i've been there girl I know that kinda pain my parents argue alot and drage me in also.Yeah and i've been abused by my dad and mom emotional and phyiscally,i've ran away and i've tried to kill myself too.I just wish it all would end u know so if u ever need a friend i'll be here for u if u want to email me and talk my email is armyfantic4u@yahoo.com or if u want to talk on yahoo its bubles4u1989 or if u want to talk on aim its tropicalgirl013.Hey i'm hear for u because understand pain my life is pain,so if u want to just drop me a line anytime.

*sigh* yes

Thanks and i dont know where my councelor gets things he's just a stupid school one. My parents argue the same thing over and over every day...it bugs me and i cry my self to sleep and i keep getting depressed every day and now my own little word is swallowing me whole and i began to cut my self i only got 3 scars so far on my body and thats by my wrist...im soo scared i think the world hates me and all and this guy at school harrasses me...so yea...

yea i've been there with the not arguing thing they say they aren't but its like living hell when one doesn't do what the other wants.So fucking stupid makes me so fucking mad.

Now there not listening to me...and also now my sis is pregnent so im gonna be more ignored then i usually am...i guees i can be a ghost instead of acting like one....i dont know i cant take it i tried to runaway but i intended to come back i have two cats who stay with me and they are the only two who understand me the most...