Should i talk with him about it?

  • stefanie
    16 years ago

    I miss him.... i basically see my boyfriend only like once a week. and when i text him he hardly ever texts back, whether it's me saying hi or saying i love you or i miss you... and when i call him i usually always get his voicemail and then never a call back... but when we're together, it's like great and eveything is ok... but it's like when we're not, i hardly hear from him, even when i'm making the effort... and i'll try talking to him about us doing things together when he doesn't have work, and he doesn't really say anything back... i really miss him and a part of me feels that i'm being too needy. that i need him way more than he needs me and that gets me mad because i don't wanna be so needy... should i talk to him about it or what do you think? i'm so confused and i have so much in my mind... please some advice would be greatly appreciated.

  • Devon
    16 years ago

    I think u should let him know what u think.

  • TwistedAngel xx
    16 years ago

    I def think u should tell him how you feel. Thats how it was in the beginning of my relationship coz he felt we just didnt really have anything to talk about or always said the same thing, but now we are engaged and have been together nearly 2 years and we call and txt wen we are not together and it has def changed for the better.
    But nothing will happen if u do nothing about it.
    Good luck.
    xx

  • Daisy Wells
    16 years ago

    Definatley talk to him about it babes he can't read your mind. If you leave it how it is he'll think your happy with it and things won't change. When you talk to him try not to pressure him though just imply that you miss him and would like to see him a little more. I'm sure he will agree. Hope all works out for you xx

  • mohamed
    16 years ago

    Of course you have to talk..but you also have to understand the other person too..best of luck

  • HisBlueEyedAngel
    16 years ago

    I would talk to him about it and what you feel...Your not being needy at all. It happens when your in love he should be writing back to you and all your doing is letting him know that you love him and miss him and really want to spend time with him as much as you can. Maybe you need to just try and get to him and just make a surprise visit some time that is what I have done with my boyfriend because his phone was busy and he was on his comp playing a game World of war craft...and he was really happy and excited to see me and he stoped his game and what he was doing and just said ok well how about i go to your house. He had a day off because his parents own a computer shop so he can get off...But like I said maybe make a surprise visit when he doesn't work.
    ~His blue eyed Angel forever~