need advice!!!!!! please help.....

  • Karen Floan
    19 years ago

    ok, today i just asked a guy to a dance and he said yes. (happy, i really like him) but my friend she admitted that she sort of likes him too, but i didn't know it at the time. and she really wants me to go with him, but now i'm not so sure. i mean, i don't wanna hurt her feelings or anything...... *confused* what should i do?

  • SuNsHiNe02
    19 years ago

    well you should go with him and then tell him that you are just going to get to be a friend to him and say because i know someone who likes you but i am not going to say who it is

  • Hope
    19 years ago

    Hello Karen. Yea, i agree with the 2 poets above me, just have the best time with him at the dance.
    Lol, I'm sure ur friend would really want you to go with him 'cause hey... that is what friends are for, to support each other.
    Moreover, you already asked the guy to the dance so do you want to break his heart and tell him "No!," just 'cause ur friend has this little crush on him as well??? Trust me, you don't want to do that.
    Lol, if u ever read my profile, when the girl i liked declined my offer to go with her to the school formal, i took it like a rejection or a break up and it REALLY hurt. But now after 9 months, little did i know that that day would change my life. Thus, believe me when i say that something so small such as a "Yes" or a "No" can mean so much to someone, especially when it could potentially come from the love of his/her life. And again, since he accepted, it would be best to just go with the flow.

    Lastly, it may have already hurt her with the idea that ur going to the dance with someone she likes even if she doesn't admit it. But to not hurt her further, keep spending time with her and don't change urself. For example, if u spend ur school lunchtime with ur girlfriends, then continue to do that. Don't spend it with ur date or ur other friend may get jealous.
    Lol, do me a favour, have a great time with him at the dance. Who knows, it could be the start of something magical. *Hope coughs the word "love"*. Anyway, Good luck and take care!!! 8)

  • *Sherrie*
    19 years ago

    i always have the same problems with my close friends just talk to her about and dont feel bad a buot it cuz you cant help who you like your not suppose to

  • Karen Floan
    19 years ago

    thanx! ^^ all of you. don't worry i'm not gonna change who i am. i'm proud of who i am. and i won't stop hanging out with my friend that would be completely wrong. yeah, and now that you mention it little things like yes or no answers can make a big difference in peoples lives. thanx!^.-