Doesnt understand something

  • Flynel
    16 years ago

    I dont understand.

    My friend, also my ex.. But still my best friend.. Only we still have a lots of problems.. We can see each other at school anymore :(

    He still love me, thats what he told me few days ago, And that he still sees me as his best friend.. Only he doest want to go outside or do something fun with me.. He only wants to talk to me at msn.. Why??

    I miss the things that we did in the past so much.. :| Now I only am conected with him on msn. And Im desperate to see him. To look in his eyes.. I never had the chance to do that in the last half year...

    why doesnt he want to do something and see each other in real life..??

  • limp
    16 years ago

    Maybe he's scared of seeing you in real life right now. i mean, he did admit that he loves you. (or was that only a best friend type love?)

    talk to him. ask.
    that's the only solution.

  • Flynel
    16 years ago

    I talk to him about that a lot.. I dont know what he means by loving me. And I dont know in what type.. I love him. And wish he was my boyfriend. but thats never gonna be I think.. If I try to talk to him about the fact I want to see him and go outside or something.. Then he tries away the invoiting me.. I hate that :S If I ask to go outside he always says, I cant. and yeah I have to help my parents or something like that. Or he says nehh I dont want to.. If I ask why he never give an answer. And when someone else asks to come outside then he goes oudsite... And thats really making me sad :(

  • limp
    16 years ago

    Write him a letter? something he can't instantly reject? and i have no idea what "invoiting" means. sorry.

  • Flynel
    16 years ago

    I mean hes avoiding me when I try to talk about it.. :S I talk to him on msn.. I dont think it would work to write a letter. I just want to go outside with him.. he always have a reason to not go with me :( Why is he doing that?

  • limp
    16 years ago

    I honestly have no idea because I am not him. you'll just have to tell him, if he keeps avoiding the subject at hand, you won't be able to talk to him until he wants to talk to you about it.

  • Flynel
    16 years ago

    I dont think thats ever gonna happen :(

  • Flynel
    16 years ago

    Told me what??

    He acts like that long before he told me that..

    And I dont know why.. I wish I knew whats going trough his mind..

  • Flynel
    16 years ago

    He always talks about everyting on msn but not about our situation.. Hes not someone that tells what he feels or something.. I love him to. So there not would be any problem. right? Hes really making me confused.. :(

  • Flynel
    16 years ago

    Well thats problem.. I never see his face >.<

    But I think he ment it.. Cause Ive tried so long to get the answer.. He never told me.. he always said 'What do you think?' or something like that..

  • Flynel
    16 years ago

    How?

  • BluEyedMemory
    16 years ago

    Good way to meet up with him. Dont go some where with too many people. Try a park or something like that.

    Just tell him the truth on MSN. Tell him you need to talk to him face to face and soon...

    Always
    Emma

  • Xx Alone in my Quandary xX
    16 years ago

    Yeah right you should talk to him;insist him somehow and settle a meeting..best of luck. .

  • Flynel
    16 years ago

    Ive tried so many times. And he never wants.. It always ends with fighting if I ask him to go outside..